So at it's core, your message is: go out and seek failure from which to learn and grow ?

What resources/advice/exercises did you find beneficial? I do want to learn and have already started embarrassing myself…

Thread in my signature has good material for new guys. I know 99% of the forum will suggest Mark Manson - Models.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

haha straight up.

The struggle to overcome oneitus is real.

When you realize you can be fucking a few girls at the same time is a beautiful thing. When you realize you can go out and attract women, have them attracted to you and they want to fuck you is amazing. I really wish more lads had the perseverance to experience it.

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Bite of more then you can chew
Then chew like hell

My Journey:viewtopic.php?f=22&t=192265

Beautiful posts in this thread by Heywood & Dragula and the last one by on a rampage.

It all comes down to the guy that you are. Most guys, to be blunt, suck.

And that is why most guys will not succeed with women because they have no desire to be better as men.

Women want a winner. Most guys will not put in the amount of work it takes to actually be a winner.

Very good post as always

Haha ADC is way better than AFC..

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- Def Shep

We must all suffer one of two things: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret or disappointment.
-Jim Rohn

Although your statements are by and large correct, you've changed nothing ...

The majority will not read, let alone get anything from this post, and the guys that know what they are doing already know this.

once upon a time your post would have angered me and hurt.

Now knowing where I have gotten I feel content and happy, realizing I have made many changes physically, mentally, 'spiritually' and in many areas such as women, academics, health and my own personal happiness. Always room to improve but man when things click you feel it.

Anyone who read OP's post and felt angered, realize that is a result of knowing the words hit home as true and use that to get yourself going, I don't care if its PUA, Money, or that fucking 6 pack, but make the first move towards being the man you dream of being.

Why should the Lion's care about the field mice?



Sikrion- Very nice. Glad you are part of the elite percent

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Guys like Dragula don't fucking care if you get hurt or angry. They care though that at the end of it all, you'll live happier as a man and making lots of women happier too in the process.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

It's true that there's no magic line and no short cut. But perhaps the best insight is realising that putting your balls on the line IS what makes you attractive. You can get blown out 100 times tonight and you'll be exponentially more attractive for it tomorrow, because you kept going. It creates a state in you that other people can feel. I'm on a slow journey myself but the steps I'm taking are meaningful (I judge myself by introvert standards as that's what I am) and all I know is every time I do something it would have been easy not to do, something that could get me rejected or ridiculed, I grow in stature in my mind and in the perceptions of others.

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If something's not fun, it's not worth doing

Yes, you're one of the ones that gets it.

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Thank you

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If something's not fun, it's not worth doing

This reminds me of the 80%-20% principle, that basically states for that for most goods whether that be wealth or in this case women, 80% of women are going to be attracted to 20% of men.

So unless you're a born natural, which I am assuming most people on this site are not since you would not be looking for help, then you have to put in the in the work. Like all skills in life you have to be willingly to put in the work to get to that top 20% of men to have access to 80% of women. Otherwise you are going to be stuck with the scraps from the top dogs.

All that being said, I was a oneitus fucker for most of my teens. I did not figure out this "game" stuff until my later teens. At that point I put in a lot of practice and surrounded myself with men that had the same goals, and that were good with women. Even then, It took me over a year until I was any good at it. You have to make the conscious choice everyday to try and get better, and unfortunately too many guys on here do not have the drive and are looking for an easy fix. Getting turned down and rejected sucks but its just part of learning, and you have to have the end in sight. If youre not getting better each day you are getting worse

I went from an intellectual fucker that couldn't get a date, to a guy that has bedded around 40 different women in the last few years, and that's because a few relationships slowed me down.

I wish I was on here more to help you guys in the situation I was in, but I do not have a lot of spare time.

Shout out to Dragula, the guy knows what he is talking about, and is a valuable member to the community. Either put in the work to be in the same league, or quit complaining