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 Post subject: Next step?
PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2015 12:21 pm 
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Hello,

I have been talking with this girl, i got her on Facebook since a looong time ago, i don't think i had ever met her since last week, we met at an entrepreneur conference last week, after that i talked to her on Facebook, we were having a good time, i even used the jealous girlfriend opener on chat, yesterday i tell her that i am going back to the place where i first saw her(i didn't talk to her that time), because they are going to have a good conference today,

she asks me about it

i tell her to give me her email to send her the flyer,

she tells me it looks really interesting,

i tell her i am almost sure i will go,

she:ok,

me: ok see you there, she: m not sure,

me: don't worry i think we will definitely see there,

she:laughs,

me:smiley face,

when i arrive i am talking with people, and i see her arriving, after some minutes i see her alone and i engage, we had a good time, we talked about many things, she we laughed, we sat together at the conference, we would talk about the performers, she would fix her hair very often, and i noticed her looking straight at me at one point, after 30 mins i notice she is texting somebody and it's a little uneasy so i ask her if she needs to leave and she tells me in some minutes, so after a while she tells me she gotta go so i tell her, ok, but give me your phone number she says hmm ok, i will text you because i gotta leave and i say ok, and she didn't text me after that, not even today, i think i can tell she was having a good time and kind of liked me, what should i do?, text her?, don't text her?, maybe text her like nothing happened, need a few opinions

Thanks in advance for your help and sorry for the long post.

Best regards,
A newbie


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 Post subject: Re: Next step?
PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2015 12:29 pm 
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She took your number as a polite way to reject you. You tricked her indirectly to meet at the conference and then it got creepy when you started asking her what her fav food is...next time, be more direct and invite her for a drink instead so it's more of a one to one dynamic.

If she was interested she would text you don't you think?

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 Post subject: Re: Next step?
PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2015 12:42 pm 
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I think its best to wait about week or so without not contacting her and then ask her out and make definate date. In date just focus for having fun & good time and hook up, dont act needy or insecure, like you are looking for validation or she is feeling that you force her to meet you again or something like that. And after date act normal again and wait till she contacts you and make again a definate date. Its important to show her that you are self-confidence man and your life dont depend about her. Thats my opinion.


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 Post subject: Re: Next step?
PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2015 1:02 pm 
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^ he isn't gonna get the date though is he... Otherwise you might as talk about what positions he should use when he fucks her

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 Post subject: Re: Next step?
PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2015 1:17 pm 
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^ he isn't gonna get the date though is he... Otherwise you might as talk about what positions he should use when he fucks her
I think its still possible to get date, but its not as easy, because of acting wrong in the first place and obviously even if she was attracted, she losed attraction... so best thing is just move on and hope she contacts or after some time contact yourself, but only ONE TIME and if she is not responding or will not agree to meet you again, then fuck it and move on.. if she agrees, make definate date & plans and not in the fucking conference, somewhere you can have fun and its easy to make things go further and be on the lead.


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 Post subject: Re: Next step?
PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2015 5:43 pm 
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She took your number as a polite way to reject you. You tricked her indirectly to meet at the conference and then it got creepy when you started asking her what her fav food is...next time, be more direct and invite her for a drink instead so it's more of a one to one dynamic.

If she was interested she would text you don't you think?

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Thanks for you feedback man, also just to be sure that you understood how it happened, she told me she had to leave so i told her ok, and then i told her to give me her phone number, and she told me that she would send me a text with it(via Facebook) even so i think you answer applies to this case, so should i just leave it like that?


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 Post subject: Re: Next step?
PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2015 5:45 pm 
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Yeah, I would just leave it IMO.

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 Post subject: Re: Next step?
PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2015 5:52 pm 
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I think its best to wait about week or so without not contacting her and then ask her out and make definate date. In date just focus for having fun & good time and hook up, dont act needy or insecure, like you are looking for validation or she is feeling that you force her to meet you again or something like that. And after date act normal again and wait till she contacts you and make again a definate date. Its important to show her that you are self-confidence man and your life dont depend about her. Thats my opinion.

Thanks For the feedback man, also do you think i forced her to meet me? Why? Tell me more about it, by telling her "see you there" i thought i was being kind funny, i thought that the fact thst she went meant that she kind of wanted to meet me, hope to hear from you again, thanks for your time


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 Post subject: Re: Next step?
PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2015 5:56 pm 
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^ he isn't gonna get the date though is he... Otherwise you might as talk about what positions he should use when he fucks her
Thanks for the feedback again man, i appreciate the honesty in your posts but I would appreciate them more if you could add some more knowledge and ways to help in them, thanks in advance!


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