Being Confidant vs. Being Creepy



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PostPosted: Fri Aug 21, 2015 6:24 pm 
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There seems to be a fine line here.

What is the main difference between the two and how can i avoid being a creep but still be confidant and have progressive yet attractive advancing

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 21, 2015 6:26 pm 
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Confidence and creep factor are apple's and oranges, very opposite ends of the spectrum. Perhaps you can elaborate how you think they are borderline close to one another?

A way to look at it is:

Uninterested girl = you are creepy

Interested girl - you are sexy

Working on your fundamentals will reduce your creep factor and intro you to available girls.

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 21, 2015 6:27 pm 
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Girls will call almost anything "creepy."

The difference is being sure of yourself vs being unsure of yourself. If you are unsure of yourself (not confident) girls will typically find that "creepy."


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 21, 2015 8:46 pm 
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Just think of a ugly girl pursuing you, u'll see her as creepy

If you were attracted to her u'll feel on cloud 9


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I personally don't see those two things as being polar opposites at all.

Being aggressive vs being creepy maybe.. But just confident?

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2015 12:06 am 
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The difference is being sure of yourself vs being unsure of yourself. If you are unsure of yourself (not confident) girls will typically find that "creepy."
I always wondered and the reply makes sense. Thanks!


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2015 1:50 am 
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Creepy would be a guy who watches porn all the time and never approaches woman... until he's drunk at a bar and talks to girls expecting them to just turn over and wet up.

A confident guy wouldn't care if a girl thought he was creepy anyway.

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