Girl at work talks to everyone around me, but me. Proximity?



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DjSuperman
PostPosted: Sat Aug 22, 2015 9:51 am 
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So there is this girl at work.
When I am not around her, or near her she is just super quiet, and stays to herself.
But when she is working close to me, she is always goofing off, and walking around and talking to the people that are around me peridocilly throughout the day, but she acts like she hates me, and never looks at me, or talks to me.
Is she giving me proximity, or what the hell is going on?
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PostPosted: Sat Aug 22, 2015 11:18 am 
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Oneitus co workers

Anyway, she doesn't talk to you, because it's an IOI. You should say hi and ask her out this time, what do you think?

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DjSuperman
PostPosted: Sat Aug 22, 2015 7:20 pm 
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I already asked her out, and she told me that she was "talking" to someone.

I admit it's one-itus since I see her all day everyday, and I can't really leave my job.
But I am trying to go out on the weekends to approach more girls.
I just need advice with this girl at work.
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She is seeing someone. She is telling you in plain English that she is not interested whether that be true or not. Why are you still investing energy into it?

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DjSuperman
PostPosted: Sat Aug 22, 2015 8:09 pm 
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Why is she always giving me IOI's then?
It's just confusing.
Like one day she will act like she likes me, and the day she would act like she is repulsed.
And I have overheard her saying things like "Dj is so hot", or "I love Dj".
It's just confusing....


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Have you forgot the title of the thread....

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DjSuperman
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Could you be a little more clear?
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You are one-itusing a chick at work who is not in to it. Cultivate abundance man and this girl will be LITERALLY the last thing on your mind. Guess what may happen then? She MAY start showing some consistent interest. Or don't put in the hard work and keep stewing over this girl who isn't into it right now. Your choice. Read Dragula's thread he linked to. It has the answer you are looking for whether you like what it says or not.
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What the fuck dude? Really?

You ask her out... she says she's not interested.

Then she acts not interested... Ignoring you and talking to everyone else around you.

and you, for some fucked up reason, find a way to twist it into thinking she's interested?!

Is there something wrong with you?!

Shit man. You're going to drive yourself CRAZY!
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You shouldn't use work as a place to meet women.
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What the fuck dude? Really?

You ask her out... she says she's not interested.

Then she acts not interested... Ignoring you and talking to everyone else around you.

and you, for some fucked up reason, find a way to twist it into thinking she's interested?!

Is there something wrong with you?!

Shit man. You're going to drive yourself CRAZY!

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Hey Mister. Persistence is the key. When you can, still try to flirt with her, but the key is not to have your mind only on her for her to say " yes " to you. But, ask other girls out and try to get them to say yes to you.
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Hey Mister. Persistence is the key. When you can, still try to flirt with her, but the key is not to have your mind only on her for her to say " yes " to you. But, ask other girls out and try to get them to say yes to you.
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