Alright, so there was this HB10 I'd been working on for awhile, I met her through a mutual friend... When we'd talk and text I would play push/pull pretty hard, and got great results. She became very interested in me. She lives like an hour away though, so we were having trouble arranging a meet up... In the meantime however, we were talking about having sex, and she was sending me nudes. So, clearly there was something there. Then, out of nowhere one day, she literally declares herself a feminist, and goes off on me for all the push/pull I've been doing. She said she didn't want to talk to me anymore because I didn't respect her and I was degrading. She was heated, so I let her cool down a little bit. We didn't talk for 5 months. She deleted my number, and deleted me off of all social media. Recently, I messaged her, apologized, and salvaged the situation. She said she truly forgave me and appreciated the apology, but still seemed a little distant as we caught up. I actually really like this girl, and want to earn myself another shot. Should I try nice guy game? How do I even do nice guy game? Lol someone help me find a game plan for this situation please. I've never dealt with anything like this before

What is it you apologized for?

Your desire to get into her pants is palpable. I think she knows it, too.

That's a big pedestal you've got her on too... A 10 who doesn't live anywhere near you and who's a hardcore feminist and who ignores you for half a year... but YOU apologized for.... (Nothing?) and now you have the honour of talking to her again.

What are the "great results" you glazed over in your post? Some mild interest or did you sleep with her? That sort of matters but you didn't say.

I do not see the upside for you - she's made her mind up on you (bet you're not getting those nudes anymore, right?) If you enjoy being kept around for attention this sounds like it might be for you.

I apologized for being a dick. I'd joke about how I was out of her league and shit.... And later, found out that it was actually hurting her. So, I suppose I actually do feel bad. (If that justifies anything; because I know it's the golden rule to never apologize.)
When I was talking about results, I guess I didn't clarify this... When I said "we talked about having sex." I meant that she and I had spoken about it, and were in agreement that we were going to have sex lol. I'd say that's a little more than mild interest. That's what's really fuckin me up. I feel like I should be able to rekindle this flame.
To be honest, I don't really see any upside either. I'm trying to dig myself out of a pretty shitty situation haha

Nobody verbally agrees to sex, dude. It just happens. She's completely fucking with you IMO and now knows she owns you.

You know what "discussing having sex" is to a chick? In this case It's her knowing you want to fuck her so badly you'll do whatever it takes.

Maybe I'm being over sensitive but she should be apologizing to you. She's playing you man and you're either in the friend zone or she's enjoying the attention.

I'm sorry dude, but you have no fucking clue what you're talking about, and that isn't even a bias. Sex always just happens? I can literally think of at least ten times off the top of my head that I had discussed having sex with a girl and followed through with it. Have you never heard of sexting? It isn't just a myth that teenagers' parents have nightmares about hahahahah
If anything, she was the one desperate to fuck. That's where my push/pull would come into play. I'd say shit like "stop trying to seduce me babe, you know this would never work. I'm wayyyy out of your league." Then she would continue to talk about what she would do to me if we were together. No, this is not a shit test, this is not a game, this is raw emotion and her looking for my approval. Also, girls just don't go around sending nudes to guys they're trying to play. I don't know why this isn't clear to you. I already understand what happened in the past, And have no need to argue about it. Now I'm just trying to solidify a good future between her and I (if possible)
There's one thing you were right about though. She does own me at the moment. Ever since I apologized the power shifted... She definitely has the upper hand. That's what I'm looking to work around. So, help with that dilemma would be great

Save yourself the headach, regain your dignity, and move on.

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I don't necessarily like it.... But now we're headed somewhere lmao

Sorry you didn't get what you wanted to hear from me.

Speaking about the day you may have sex is a lot different from sexting. And sexting is a lot different than converting that to sex.

I doubt you were as close as you think you were - but hey, I don't have a clue what I'm talking about.

Enjoy being her lap dog... Dick.

What a disgusting attitude to someone who is helping you.

I'm not surprised she got bored of you. Yes, who hasn't Sexted a girl before but if I had a penny for every time I Sexted a girl and she DIDN'T follow through with it, I would probably have about 43 pence by now. If she is a 10 then she is probably used to this. Try being a challenge instead. If you think push pull works on her, then I highly doubt sexting was the best move since it's all "pull" and no "push"

The best thing you can do is ignore her. Get some attention from other girls at work perhaps. Then she might send you a "how are you? X" text one day.

Don't ever apologise for a girl who sends you nudes and then turns a feminist. You should of stood ground of your frame...don't even think about buying her flowers either.

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