Whatever it is; Tinder matches, Twitter/Instagram direct messages, etc., what is your opener? I've noticed that the convo dies out quick when you start with a compliment, and you often just get straight up ignored with a joke.... What have you guys had success with?

I don't want to give away my main gem. But this one used to work for me:

"Hey I know this is a fake profile, but was wondering if you could get me in touch with the model used in the pics, thanks, bye"

Yeah it's a little complimentive. So might now work as good for you. But to be honest, you don't need a great opener on tinder since you're matched already and it's kinda warm

With POF - your opener should be awesome since you're cold messaging.

A simple "hey, name, you seem interesting" will work pretty good.

Keeping her engaged and stimulated is more of the challenge with tinder. Just make sure you avoid the occupation, location type of questions.

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