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| darkie_jackal | PostPosted: Fri Aug 14, 2015 6:52 am | |
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Hello Everybody ,
Another field report from the gym. (Still looking for people to share their gym routines)
So I sit down on the stretching mats next to a 7 young skinny young first year student at the uni gym.
Opener: You know what time the gym closes tonight? ( yeah I know weak opener, but I couldn't think of anything else)
Not going to type out the whole conversation but it goes along the lines of:
You look really lean you play sports?
HER: use to play sports in high school , but genetics,
DJ: Wow you must come from a lineage of track sprinters (trying to be funny)
HER: LOL no my parents used to play sports when they were younger
Then we talk about our programmes , she tells me she's from Alberta.
I ask about the Calgary stampede, she said she used to work at the stampede, I ask if she rode a bull before, and she says no but I could ride an electric one.
Then she says in some nightclubs in Alberta they have electric bulls , I'm like yeah that's so cool.
Basically we spoke for like 6minutes.
>>> Then a male comes (no its not her bf) and she says “hey I made a new friend (am I already FZ?) “
I introduce myself to male, then continue stretching on the mat next to her, the whole time I was stretching I was thinking of how I will close. She also continued to stretch.
Then I reiniated the conversation.....
“So how was first year of uni” she talks about adjusting from high school etc.... Then right before she finishes a sentence, I said “ Do you have facebook?” , she’s like yeah, so then I was like can you text it to me. Then she replies “oh you can just add me”, and hands me her phone (lol I should of just called my number from it  ), I added myself to her facebook. Then I was like maybe I will sneak into my school gym (the gym I went to is from another school), and she was like oh yeah cool I live right near YOUR school. I don’t think a gym is a good place for a first date though.
Then I leave the stretch area and I'm like nice meeting you....
Problem was there was no kino (im very unnatural with kino).
I’m a lot older than her, how should I play this? I will add her to fb and try to talk to her. I know I will bump into her in gym again.
Thanks for all the replies  ,
DJ
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| Dragula | PostPosted: Fri Aug 14, 2015 7:07 am | |
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Joined: Wed Sep 10, 2008 5:40 pm
Posts: 5689 | | I think gaming her on fb at this point is a bad idea. It feels like one step back move.
To be honest, the whole interaction was pretty basic and indirect. You basically had a small talk conversation. Unless you're you look really good you might wanna add some flirting and make it least obvious to the girl that you're chatting her up. Tell her something like you noticed her checking your ass out in the mirrors when you were doing some squats or something.
If I was you, I would just frequent the gym, play a slow game with her. Talk to other people in front of her to show that you're a cool social guy that just doesn't chat up girls in the gym. Each time you go, just have this inside joke with her that she is still checking you out and that she should concentrate on working out.
Say hi to her till there is familiarity and have a little convo and a flirt. Once you sense she is comfortable with you and she knows you're not just the creepy gym small talk guy...she might even give you some clues by taking her headphones out expecting you to talk to her.....you will sense when she likes you and to just go for the date. "Hey, you seem really splendid, let's grab a drink sometime?"
Going direct in these situarions is just un-calibrated in my opinion. Also, I feel that you're using Facebook as a way to game her because you don't have the confidence to do it to her face.
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