Last night about 30 minutes before closing, a hot blonde chick, alone, sat a few seats down from me. Approached immediately and she was on tinder, saying she was supposed to meet someone. Still opened and introduced myself and made small talk. Negged her that she got flaked on. Initiated light kino after handshake when she showed me her tattoos. Told her to buy me a drink and she was like hell no. Talked some more and told me she came her from NY, and we discussed tinder and open relationships etc. Her boyfriend, if there really was one, was back home. She really didn't seem interested and didn't really shit test, but I it was because I was controlling the convo. She eventually bought me a shot out of nowhere. Keep in mind that I was not showing too much interest. I Negged her again about something and she lightly hit my arm so I escalated further and put my arm around her and she didnt resist, but she was still tied to her tinder convo. She shrugged off my arm, so I moved back to just touching her arm to keep my intentions in check and not go beta. She would try to neg me, but I didn't break frame, but wasn't witty either.

This is only 5 mins in.

At this point, I am really not chasing, but am trying to display DHV at the same time becausebshebprobably is just waiting to blow me out if I go for anything again right away. She Negged me again and I made her buy me another shot. Now, when the bartender came over, she started talking to him in front of me and Negged me and then saidbshe only likes black guys (he was) and he number closed her in front of me. I sat unfazed until he was done
This seemed to be a shit test. After she gave the number, I made her buy Another shot for me, and she still let me talk and didn't blow me out. Im convo, I ended up using the line, whoever said anything about me trying to have sex? She threw a final shit test, where's your girlfriend? I said we only cuddle after sex sometimes, so I don't know if that Makes her my gf. She smiled a little bit and asked if she was home, but I'm a very spiteful tone. Didn't answer. Tried to re kino, she moves away.

THEN..

Her tab comes and she tries to get me to buy the shots that she got for me! I was like nfw, that's your tab. She kept sliding it toward me and i was like nope! Not happening. She then takes in a nearby female bartender and they gang up on me saying, it's bar etiquette, you're supposed to pay! I was like not a chance in hell, so I didnt. Now she goes WICKED sour and calls me and insecure douche bag freeloader and tells me to move. Being a dmartass, I nudge over in my chair like 2 inches and say, there! She went into full bitch mode and then started yelling in the bar GTF away. Of course, I bailed before I got bounced.

So...

I think I either overgamed, did too much negging, or just knocked her off her pedastal because I didn't comply or break frame against anything. I don't think I failed from not esczlafing, because i tried to but to no avail.

This is my 4th approach. I'm a n00b. Please share thoughts.

Speak with and meet more women. You don't have to hang in a "set" with any particular one if it's not going smoothly.

You're just starting so it was probably exciting to be having her giving attention.

You need more volume so you can bail on situations like this that aren't going any where. You were able to read that it wasn't by her dismissive attitude.

You'll learn that there is NO need to try to work hard with any particular girl because there are so many others who have great attitudes and are excited to engage in flirty banter.

Get out there and let yourself run on autopilot and trust yourself. As you know the best time to analyze a "set" is after it is over, not while it is occurring.
Then why keep plowing.

Again, get out there and meet more women.
Learn from this bar experience. Do not be giving her attention of any sort if she doesn't have the respect to have a 1-to-1 convo with you.