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I wrote an article called " Reject me, I dare you" and basically its all about the attitude that you are projecting.
How are your skills in the bedroom? Its often the guys who aren't to sure what they can do sexually that have the most difficult time pulling women home on the first night. There confidence suggest that they wouldn't know what to do with her if they did bring her home. You know for a 100% fact that you will rock a girls world if she comes home with you there is a new level of confidence that comes with it.
Also be willing to walk. When your attitude suggest that this is there one and only shot with you they are a lot more likely to be receptive than if they get the feeling that you will stick around whether they sleep with you or not. Whats in it for them at that point? Why not prolong things and get more investment out of you before making that decision?
how many times have you gone for it? You have to forum a habit of continually going for it. You don't want the number, you don't want the instant date, you want the lay. So take no numbers, and go on no dates. You have to stand firm on this if its what you actually want.
Last but not least, do ask, take them. Lead the by the hand to your car or to the bathroom or to the discrete location wherever you are. When she asks where you're going, you tell her "we're going home. ". She objects and you let her go and don't look back. And if you're not at that level, going for food helps if you meet them at the club. "lets go get something to eat", eat talk and the invite her back to yours.
Let me know if you have any more questions on this
I do not normally do night game i prefer online and day game and usually i get numbers in day game or online and usually it is hard to insta date from day game as most girls are busy doing something during the day so usually i take a number fix something.i go for it usually by trying to set up the date just a few minutes from where i live but it is a bit far and most girls will complain about the distance. i have realized i lost a lot of opportunities with hot girls i was on dates with because i played it safe.just coffee give the girl a hug or something and then leave.the trouble is my neighbourd is a bit far from where the action happens and it is hard to bounce them to my home.how do i go about that? Should i try to take them to a hotel or something which is harder as most usual excuses don't work.or should just take all the risk of hiring a cab and bringing them to my place.