Apart of my AFC to PUA, is to find a style that reflects me, EI demenor\clothing style.

So I have heard two schools of thought on this:

-One is to dress trendy, like the manicans at the clothing store, and 99% of the men I see with women, dress like this. I have tried this, and I don't feel confertable dressing like this, plus i'm a non-conformist so it does not reflect who I am very well.

-Two come up with your own indiviual style, set your self apart. as it is, I fit the profile of Quiet/Dark and Mysterious. I typical dress in darker colours or in Khaki colours. Sometimes I will wear camo pants or camo jacket, but never together.

My question is how do I be Quiet/dark and Mysterious type with out being creepy?

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What I like to do is dress well, as in by the modern man's view of dressing well...as in clothes that fit, have lots and lots of versatile outfits and several types and different colours of shoes. Wearing clothes that are "in", sometimes sacrificing a little bit of comfort and personal taste for what's "in". I have learned to dress well by experience and by being a fashion enthusiast, by reading men's fashion blogs, observing guys known to be well dressed, and reading some guides from the PUA community about wearing clothes depending on your hair colour, skin tone and build. Do a quick search and you'll find loads.

What I like to do though is wear some things that set me apart. I am a big fan of coloured bracelets and I also have an eyebrow piercing. I wear coloured studs some times, even glow in the dark ones for special musical festivals. I wear colourful shoes a lot....so I am always standing out without going full retard like Mystery and Neil Strauss.

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How to be quiet mysterious type without being creepy?

Be clean and approach similar style girls.

If you creep "regular" girls out because your too outlandish perhaps tone your style down a bit.

It all depends on what you want.

The rest is basic game. Smile. Be positive. Flirt. Relate.

Obviously some girls are into certain stereotypes... Clothing says alot about a man.

Work it towards what you want.

Your style should be boosting your confidence.

Is useually a reflection of your innerself. Play with it.

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How about combine the two for a potent polymerization? Or do some of both?

Why do you want to come across as quiet and dark? Because thats what you think chicks like or is that what you like? Just make sure your dress is congruent with your personality. Take a nerdy guy and put him in hip hop gear and he will stick out like a sore thumb. Its not in any way connected to who he is.

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Below is how I dress.. I've always dressed in darker colours.

I have a deranged\morbid scense of humour

To be blunt, the skinny, balding rocker is not a good look. As skinny as you are, coverage is your friend. I'd go button up shirts, pretty much all the time. Drawing attention to your arms is not a good thing.

Don't think that all button up shirts are "professional" looking. Look into brands like Eighty Eight and Roar.

You also need to go to an attractive stylist to get your hair cut. Always pick a stylist who physically looks like the upper end of the type of girl you usually date. Understand, %95 of stylists working in good salons are competent in their craft. The difference between one who is good for you and one who isn't, is based on her focuses. If she looks like the type of girl you're into, she'll usually make you look better to that type of girl than most other stylists.

If your existing stylist actually fits the above criteria, then go find another. That really is the worst possible hair cut for someone with an NW 4. Shortish, but not buzzed. It either needs to be grown out and worn forward, or to the side, or buzzed down. If you go buzzed, you may consider getting a hair tattoo. If you decide to grow it out and wear it forward, ask your stylist about extensions and or hair clips.

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You look like a rapist

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You're new here, aren't you? I can tell this because:

1. You're a dick (guys go from clueless, to then learning a few negs etc and becoming a dick, and they eventually just become a challenging tease and get it right) - you were just being a dick. There was no advice, no help, no value... just you insulting somebody. Post a picture of yourself, hot stuff.

2. Confident people challenge others up to their level. Arrogant people drag people down to their level. You were being arrogant. There's no way you could be experienced with game and be like that.

OP... you look alright. You just look like an average guy.

If I was you, I'd join a gym, or even get a bench and a bar... you can get a full body workout with that shit. Make sure you train your whole body - either a body part per day, or full body workouts. Also follow the clothing advice.

But above all, own who you are. I'm skinny with a belly... I'm working on it, but I wouldn't say I'm insecure about it. You're as good looking as most pick up artists were when they started out... they just know how to work with what they've got. Go take a look at Adam Lyons or Gambler. People think they're good looking, but look at them before they figured things out. Look at Julien and Tyler... they're still fucking hideous now so imagine their starting point? They both looked like (and pretty much are) rapists lol.

Kill it, man.

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Imao, You're not the firist one to say that. Which probably explains the types of women I've attracted in the past.

And I do wear button up shirts alot as well. I'll take a photos of some of the outfits I wear.

I don't really try to hide the fact i'm balding, I don't really care that much about it, I uaslly have my hair cut pretty short(any shorter it would be a buzz cut) and yes I use a No. 4 sheer =) From my PoV i look like a dumbass if I try to cover my blad spot with a pathedic comb over.

As for working out, I work in a warehouse and lift heavy box's for 8 hours 5 days a week(and its back breaking work) So going to the gym is kinda difficult physically. I do go atleast once a week, if my back or some part of my bodys not bothering me.