Okay, picture a (drunk) girl at a club that's obviously having lots of fun, jumping up and down, talking to her friends, and is constantly laughing. How do you go about approaching a party girl like this?

It would be wrong to approach her from a lower emotion level, if I'm saying that correctly. Like, you can't boringly walk up to a girl like that, stick your hand out and say in a monotone voice: "Hey, I'm Melon91. Nice to meet you. What is your name?". You'd be bringing her down from her high and nobody likes that. But then how DO you handle this? Obviously you need to be having fun yourself, but no matter how much fun I'm having, I would never match her "drunkingly jumping-up-and-down" kind of fun. I also suck at dancing by the way, so I don't see myself "dancing" my way to her either.

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I match it with aggression.

Intensity for intensity.

Its not that deep man, as I'm sure you already know the trick is to be willing to walk away and be willing to be rejected from before you approach. I'm aggressive period. Grab a girl by the wrist lightly with confidence (not the hand, the wrist), pull them on the dance floor, or just pull them facing you and begin doing your thing. A big part of the game is being the more dominate figure. If she's too wild for you to contain or "tame" the spark of attraction won't be there. Its where most guys struggle in this situation. They're afraid to match her wildness, with their dominance. By being as dominate as she is wild. Its a head to head battle in this situation and it can also be a lot of fun.

You don't wanna bring a woman down.. It would be better to match her high, bring her higher. She out there because she wants to take a ride, not have seat.

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Match her intensity with dominance. A very interesting and clever insight. Thanks for the tip!

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My answer was gonna be a less badly explained of eddies's better answer

You can do some crazy eye contact stuff and suck her into your bubble. The dominance can be better than her energy.

You match her vibe but chill on the physiology of it. Intense/in tents

But, some of those girls annoy me and they can't be calmed down. They are usually too drunk to bump into later on too

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I'm not gonna give you the whole intensity matching thing.

This right here is your problem ^^^

You admitted it yourself.... That's not you, cousin. You're not gonna like her and she's not gonna like you.

You're quiet and shy... She's in the middle of the club dancing her ass off.

Your personality will clash with hers and both of you will be very unhappy. The relationship will not work.

You can change who you are by starting to go up and party and dance with "this girl" if you want...

Otherwise, stick to the girl who's sipping her drink quietly with her friends... You'll be much happier.

Why so specific on the wrist, Eddie?

I find it to be an act of dominance. Grab a girl by the hand and she'll pull away. Grab the wrist and it means " Girl come here".

I know it may sound a bit overly dominate through text or just plain "over the top" but its not what you may think it is. Its done lightly and politely if that makes any sense.

Perhaps its not something one may want to do as a beginner. But with the right confidence you can get away with anything.

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