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PostPosted: Fri Jul 10, 2015 6:57 pm 
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no, I just don't feel confident in seducing women that I first meet.
So the 2's and 3's you refuse to give them any power over you and the rest you give statements that make them uncomfortable. I go back to my original point of that it seems that you purposely set yourself up for rejection. You set yourself up for rejection because you are scared that you may fail if you actually put effort into trying. Then you tell yourself that you have massive balls because you approach anything. You are in your own way, but you blame and attack everyone else. You tell everyone that you won't put in the effort for pussy but complain about how long it's been since you had any.
I need a technique, a line, whatever that will stop them from speed walking away from me, when I go up to them and say ''hi, how are you''? and not feeling like this interaction will only last as long as she wants it to last, it will end on her terms at any second and when I go to ask for her number that she will say that she already has a boyfriend, I will give a witty comeback, she will giggle and laugh it off and say no again. I want to know what I should be thinking when I approach them.
I know that im better than this. Even 40+ year olds that I was approaching who were doing their job, were turning me down. The 9s would shoot me down straight away without even letting me get going. The few 9s that could find. Others would ignore me. I know im better.
Honestly I was better before I even got into all this pick up stuff. The last interaction I had before, I was talking to a girl all night, holding hands, we were walking around town for hours, and I decided that to just leave it at that and not get her number because I was already in a relationship at the time and I wanted to be faithful.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 10, 2015 7:02 pm 
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need a technique, a line,
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need a technique, a line,
This line never fails

'I noticed you from the across the street and you look really splendid'

IT WORKS EVERY TIME BRO, rejection free
thanks, what would be a good way of showing my sexual intent, what can I say, instead of going over the top?


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 10, 2015 7:08 pm 
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It was sarcasm bro, I am gob smacked that you believed their was a rejection proof line

There is no magic line. Just about playing the numbers game and improving THE FUNDAMENTALS

Edit: This is my last post. If you were to approach 1000 girls saying 'Hi, you look really interesting, thought I would say hI'

Say you get laid 10 times of of 1000 girls by doing that

What if you improved the fundamentals. You dressed 50% better, your grooming was 50% better, your body language was 50% better, your overall confidence was 50% better, your comfort with approaching girls was 50% better...

Then you could get laid 100 times by approaching the same 1000 girls.

Get it?

If you don't get laid by asking girls to have babies with you, I would suggest you change that and be normal and focus on the big picture. Not the lines. You might even not get banned from malls too as a bonus

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Dude I admire your enthusiasm but you have to take it down like 1000 notches.

Honestly some approaches are going to go great while others will go badly that's just the way the game is played. But when you are rejected by every girl you approach and creep them out so much that they get security to kick you out then you gotta go back and take a good long look at what you are doing.

When you take away all the lines, openers and gimmicks, then at the very core of game lies one fundamental truth. Always make women feel comfortable around you.

There should never ever be a point where a "technique" or "opener" you use makes the woman you're talking to uncomfortable. Because as soon as you make her feel uncomfortable then the whole interaction is dead.

Shock them, surprise them even ignore them. But don't ever make her feel uncomfortable. That's Game 101.

Telling a complete stranger that you don't even know that you want to "put a baby in her" is a good way to get rejected fast.

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 11, 2015 9:39 pm 
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Dude I admire your enthusiasm but you have to take it down like 1000 notches.

Honestly some approaches are going to go great while others will go badly that's just the way the game is played. But when you are rejected by every girl you approach and creep them out so much that they get security to kick you out then you gotta go back and take a good long look at what you are doing.

When you take away all the lines, openers and gimmicks, then at the very core of game lies one fundamental truth. Always make women feel comfortable around you.

There should never ever be a point where a "technique" or "opener" you use makes the woman you're talking to uncomfortable. Because as soon as you make her feel uncomfortable then the whole interaction is dead.

Shock them, surprise them even ignore them. But don't ever make her feel uncomfortable. That's Game 101.

Telling a complete stranger that you don't even know that you want to "put a baby in her" is a good way to get rejected fast.
I know it is, but I just said it to loosen up and because I found it amusing. :-D


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http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/le ... st-4628734

you are reading too much RSDshit. it's absolutely disgusting. it's no game at all zero skills it's not pick up it's simply harassment and it's a crime. I hope your sister and mother get harassed like that and that you go to jail.

it's people like you that give pua a bad name. shame on you.


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I had previously written a post with good advice for you but that was with only having read the first page of this topic. After reading the rest of the topic I do not think you are ready to understand. I seriously wish I could like yugioh mind crush you. I am disappointed that you cannot understand the function of this forum, which sadly does involve criticism. We're like your older brothers who are telling you why shit isn't working for you, but you become very hostile. You sound very dangerous(Similar to Elliot Rodger, who knew about pick up and was into rsd stuff) and frankly you sound very desperate(maybe that's why there is no attraction). You act like the world is ending or something trust me it isn't. If your the guy from the picture you look young and you still have a lot of time to make changes. As far as your problem with girls running from you say "stop!" And tell them why you stopped them. If they look busy give the interaction a time constraint. If they still walk away its okay people are busy, you can't get every interaction right because they have lives as well and weren't anticipating someone to take up time. But for realzzz you need to get your mind right before you sarge. Good luck man.

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OP I love your shopping centre story...funny.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 05, 2015 7:57 am 
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Dude I admire your enthusiasm but you have to take it down like 1000 notches.

Honestly some approaches are going to go great while others will go badly that's just the way the game is played. But when you are rejected by every girl you approach and creep them out so much that they get security to kick you out then you gotta go back and take a good long look at what you are doing.

When you take away all the lines, openers and gimmicks, then at the very core of game lies one fundamental truth. Always make women feel comfortable around you.

There should never ever be a point where a "technique" or "opener" you use makes the woman you're talking to uncomfortable. Because as soon as you make her feel uncomfortable then the whole interaction is dead.

Shock them, surprise them even ignore them. But don't ever make her feel uncomfortable. That's Game 101.

Telling a complete stranger that you don't even know that you want to "put a baby in her" is a good way to get rejected fast.
I know it is, but I just said it to loosen up and because I found it amusing. :-D
Buddy, you're really not getting it here. Ok imagine a strange guy that you've never met before comes up to you and says "I'm going to stab you to death and kill your family". Naturally, you'd feel uncomfortable and scared. This is an extreme example but the idea is the same. You're frightening women that are just trying to go about their daily lives by saying these stupid things that "amuse" you.

Stop watching that RSD nonsense and reevaluate your entire game because at the moment its not game at all, it being a borderline sexual predator.

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well im starting to think that shopping centres are a bad place to cold approach. I opened a woman walking her dog at the park on the way there and the interaction went quite well for my standards. I went to the shopping center already on an unstifled state, and started opening everyone that came into view.
Then I got a red bull and I just started approaching anything in sight, opening directly immediately with stuff like ''when are you going to stop being so boring and give me a kiss''......''how would you like to hang out with me and be cool for once in your life''......''I have just met you but I already want to put a baby in you''......''hey, not so fast....why don't we talk about more important things...like you!'' Sometimes after I drunk the red bull I found myself saying to myself...''wow slow down!!'' but I couldn't resist anything that came my way.
Almost all approaches I got the same 'i already have a boyfriend' shit-test responses, my responses sometimes got a giggle from them but not much else. I just went there for the purpose of self amusement, saying whatever I wanted to say, whatever turned me on without worrying about the womans reaction and to approach as many women as possible. I must have approached about 50 women.
While I was in one shop opening another woman, I got approached by four security guys and they told me that they had been receving complaints for the last few hours about someone harassing them and was told I had to leave the premesis and my day of cold approaching was brought to an end.
So im thinking that shopping centers really Is not the right place to cold approach.
Ok so what is the next step you recommend, so I can improve?
I think I would do much better if I had a coach and if I had a more sound strategy in the battlefield. Sometimes when you are in the battlefield, it feels similar to a boxing fight in the sense that, you come up with a strategy with your boxing coach to box, move, fight at your pace and distance against your stronger and bigger punching opponent. But then when the bell rings, the gameplan goes out of the window and you find yourself slugging away, standing toe to toe with your opponent, completely forgetting everything that you worked on and not using your head. That's how it feels sometimes.
man, it's like you don't even put much effort, the thing you do, it's ok to build confidence, approaching, saying the first thing that come to your mind, but if you said that you can handle rejection, it's time to move on the next step, just being yourself, i mean, saying something more than just those canned pick up lines and slow down a little.


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