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if you are gonna disagree at least explain how you did it, i can do this, i can do that, is empty, this is how i did it, and this is how you can do it... Practical see...
"Work smarter not harder" doesn't mean don't work just as hard. Think about it before calling it bs. If you work just as hard as me but smarter than me and all things being equal, who is going to get the best result? With time being a limiting factor, it is to your advantage to work smarter if you want equal or better results.
For me, it all came down to using my time correctly. I would leave work, grab a bite to eat, shower, and go out to whatever my destination was for probably about 2 or 3 hours, if that long. If I needed a night or two to just relax, I would do that. If I am just running errands and I see a woman that is attractive, I talk to her. I probably spent just as much time out talking to women as the guy who gets home from work and sits around for a while, or bullshitting with his friends for a while, or waiting for the best time to show up at a venue.
Not to mention that having to work in the morning is a great time restraint and when you have a woman interested in you, it's an absolutely great card to play. Instead of going out and spending cash on dates, she will come over and spend time with you. It's justifiable in a woman's eyes even at the stage of just getting to know each other.
The thing about being smarter is realizing that you have less time to waste and you have to take advantage of that time. Don't play the numbers game and instead keep learning from your last experience and get your belief system in order.
In practical terms, I used time management and common sense. Hopefully that helps you and the OP understand why I disagree with the delusional assessment. You just have to want it enough and not make excuses.
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