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PostPosted: Thu Jun 25, 2015 9:36 pm 
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Eddie - Great article and I agree with all of it but in my position, this early on... would you say it's advisable for me to do that though, being that every opportunity with a female is surely a shot at something, a practice almost? Obviously not for you guys because you're ahead of the game but me who's just discovered the whole pick up concept and community.
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And this was just you under a year ago Mr.Baker. Chill bro.

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And this was just you under a year ago Mr.Baker. Chill bro.
Your attempt to shame to salvage your reputation? Come on man, I figured you were better than that. I'm not quire sure what "Mr. Baker" alludes, I assume its some sort of bait for me to ask what but I'm not that interested.

FYI, to anyone that cares (yourself included as evidenced by your post you clearly do), that message was from me. I was in a relationship with a pretty damaged person, of which I learned a hell of a lot from (the relationship itself, not so much her) and was courageous enough to rid myself of this person before completely losing myself, sanity included. Not sure what you were expecting by posting this. I've certainly got nothing to hide, and I imagine my experience is an asset to helping quite a number of people in toxic relationships, or struggling with their own issues surrounding their own identity/sense of self.


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And this was just you under a year ago Mr.Baker. Chill bro.
Your attempt to shame to salvage your reputation? Come on, I figured you were better than that.

FYI, to anyone that cares (yourself included as evidenced by your post you clearly do), that message was from me. Not sure what you were expecting. I certainly got nothing to hide.

"This message is clearly from me"

Lol

As if they couldn't tell.

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And this was just you under a year ago Mr.Baker. Chill bro.
Your attempt to shame to salvage your reputation? Come on, I figured you were better than that.

FYI, to anyone that cares (yourself included as evidenced by your post you clearly do), that message was from me. Not sure what you were expecting. I certainly got nothing to hide.

"This message is clearly from me"

Lol

As if they couldn't tell.
People can photoshop, do all sorts of manipulations to rig a message to look like it came from somebody other than it had. Question is, why are you so consumed by it? You're obviously trying to prove some point to save face/one-up someone (me in this case).

If you're qualifying yourself as a 'life coach' (a title that is completely unregulated and pretty much anyone with a high school diploma can call themselves) you're certainly stabbing yourself in the foot by attacking somebody from a post they'd sent in their moment of vulnerability. Do you keep tabs on clients too so you can attack them out of sheer ego if you perceive them to have somehow wrong or slighted you down the road?

My guess is you were a typical placating Mr. NiceGuy who appeased everybody around them whilst hiding his own needs until you blew-up out of frustration/anger. So you learned to hold onto things to use later down the road in attempt to hurt those people for not meeting your needs which you'd learned how to ask to be met in non-direct ways (passive aggressive behaviour namely). Some self-reflection would likely do you a lot of good, perhaps starting with a diary and logging your feelings, less so the content of your thoughts and looking for common recurring themes.

Come on man, for real. Give your head a shake.


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People can photoshop, do all sorts of manipulations to rig a message to look like it came from somebody other than it had. Question is, why are you so consumed by it? You're obviously trying to prove some point to save face/one-up someone (me in this case).

If you're qualifying yourself as a 'life coach' (a title that is completely unregulated and pretty much anyone with a high school diploma can call themselves) you're certainly stabbing yourself in the foot by attacking somebody from a post they'd sent in their moment of vulnerability. Do you keep tabs on clients too so you can attack them out of sheer ego if you perceive them to have somehow wrong or slighted you down the road?

Come on man, for real. Give your head a shake.

Awwwwwwwwwwww.

Now you're playing victim lol

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People can photoshop, do all sorts of manipulations to rig a message to look like it came from somebody other than it had. Question is, why are you so consumed by it? You're obviously trying to prove some point to save face/one-up someone (me in this case).

If you're qualifying yourself as a 'life coach' (a title that is completely unregulated and pretty much anyone with a high school diploma can call themselves) you're certainly stabbing yourself in the foot by attacking somebody from a post they'd sent in their moment of vulnerability. Do you keep tabs on clients too so you can attack them out of sheer ego if you perceive them to have somehow wrong or slighted you down the road?

Come on man, for real. Give your head a shake.

Awwwwwwwwwwww.

Now you're playing victim lol
In what way?

Seriously though, thank you for posting that it reminded me of how far I've come almost a year later. That's AWESOME!!

EDIT: Gotta head to the gym, can carry this on later.


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People can photoshop, do all sorts of manipulations to rig a message to look like it came from somebody other than it had. Question is, why are you so consumed by it? You're obviously trying to prove some point to save face/one-up someone (me in this case).

If you're qualifying yourself as a 'life coach' (a title that is completely unregulated and pretty much anyone with a high school diploma can call themselves) you're certainly stabbing yourself in the foot by attacking somebody from a post they'd sent in their moment of vulnerability. Do you keep tabs on clients too so you can attack them out of sheer ego if you perceive them to have somehow wrong or slighted you down the road?

Come on man, for real. Give your head a shake.

Awwwwwwwwwwww.

Now you're playing victim lol
In what way?

EDIT: Gotta head to the gym, can carry this on later.
Later sweetheart.

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I thought about it, and I did stoop a little low on this one. Private messages should remain private whether I like the guy or not. My apologies to n2thevoid.

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I thought about it, and I did stoop a little low on this one. Private messages should remain private whether I like the guy or not. My apologies to n2thevoid.
All good, no harm done. We cool.


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She flaked. What else would you like to know?

Give her one more shot. Otherwise, discard the lead.
This.

I think she didn't like the sound of the date much. It sounds like you were just taking her to a pub? You should be doing something a lot more fun and unique. Make a fucking great first impression. You ideally want to do the same thing with every girl though lol - just let them think it's this new experience that you're sharing. It doesn't even have to be amazing, just not dinner/movie/pub.

I use the bowling alley. It has an arcade, pool tables, a bar for when we do want to get a few drinks, a couple of little places to eat... yet nobody really uses it for dates. Always leaves the girl thinking she had a great night, and wanting to see me again! Oh and there's also the town park right next to it... full of really posh looking ponds and food places and all that stuff. Every area has a similar place :)

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