Hey boys,

A girl i was gaming me told me that her initial impression of me was this

"You seem like youl say whatever will get you into a girls pants; almost like a dushy fuk boy"

she said this half heartily, but it still made me think ( i laughed and brushed it off on the exterior tho)

Anyways, i give this impression because i have worked on my body language( i carry myself very confidently and walk with some swagger), especially my walk and wear stylish clothing. I also have an out going and "im the shit attitude." Do I over do it?

What do you guys think? Should i tone down the confidence and "im the shit" attitude?

You're only speaking of one girl. Worry about it if it is coming from multiples.

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If you're worried about one what individual girl thinks of you enough to come post it here to ask us about it, your attitude probably isn't "i'm the shit" enough. Or its just being faked and not congruent with whats going on in the inside of you.

Let the comments roll off man. With time what you try to project today will be further rooted into who you really are.

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I simplified the story, for the sake of time and simplicity. the whole truth is that I'm at a camp; and all the girls agreed and said it as if they all had the same first impression. So with that in mind, what do u think?

Then it's exactly what Eddie said. It's your incongruence and while it's not obvious to you, it's obvious to them.

Another thing to look at is that you are the same as other guys that try to walk around like they're the shit. Since most guys have the same view of what's masculine to women, they emulate the same image which puts you in the same category as every other fuck boy.

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You just have to keep it real man. Work on your mentality and frame in private and keep it real as you grow around others.

I'm arrogant as hell and it works. You'll always have haters but for the most part no one really says anything. Most days I feel like a God and I have no problem saying it. And in those few days I don't, I don't go around pretending I do. I'm real with myself and others.

The more and more you believe in yourself, the more others will. It's a process. Just keep approaching and keep developing your character. You'll believe in your shit more and more everyday.

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In my experience, being accused of being a player or fuck boy is usually an indicator of interest and shit test. Just keep up what you're doing, it's a rookie move to be flustered.

Yea, i didnt let them know that it got to me. and 2 of my friends agree with me that 3 of them seem like they want to get with me. so yea. Maybe i got multi shit tested haha. The 3 girls give me intense eye contact, try to make conversation with me, come to sit by me, and seem to seek reactions from me.

Also, im not incongruent. Among my friends, im known to be arrogant(not sure if thats a good thing) and they joke that i have an ego problem. I truly believe that im the shit and that is clear to everyone. Like everyone, from time to time i can feel vulnerable ( normally thats when i post here)

So Adam Sandler, thanks and I agree

the golden rule... "what women say ad what they respond two are totally different things"

Keep at it, you will naturally adjust.