Yeah, you guys know the one I'm talking about. The girl that teases every guy in the bar/club to the point where she already knows shes getting what she wants out of every guy by showing interest. The girl who will kiss you and tease the living shit out of you but won't sleep with you if you give off even the slightest hint of thirst. The social butterflies.

What are your experiences? Should you just stay as far away from them as you can, or become the best man you can be to be able to call her yours? Success/Horror stories? What is it really like to have the gal of the hour. I had one back in High School, but that's all a pathetic distant memory now. I know they're breakable, but are they worth trying to be with any longer than a single night? Discuss.

Um. No thanks.

This requires some thinking on your behalf OP. What is it that YOU think you are getting from the party girl that other girls can't give you? Keep in mind that a party girl is still just a girl. She has insecurities, just like other girls. In general, she is looking to settle down with a guy one day, even when she says she's not.

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I won't even waste my time on this one especially in the club or party scene. She's there to satisfy her ego and won't get laid.

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Not necessarily true. Of course she has an ego that she wants to satisfy, but the problem is that guys treat her like the image she is projecting...that causes a wall to go up on her. It happens because of what she does, but at the same time it's up to you not to be that guy to fall into that trap if you want to approach her.

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You're already pedestaling her. Which is a clear display that your mental perception of her is exactly whats keeping you from having access to her. 9 times out of 10 a woman wants to be dominated . And to your nature you are already more dominate than her but you're too busy highlighting how great you think she is to realize it.

Nothing is special about anything she says aside from what you THINK of what she has to say. If she was a 300 hundred pound chick with bad skin delivering the same jokes no one would crack a smile. It is only you perception of her exterior that causes you to romanticize her statements. The same way everyone laughs at the wealthy guys terrible jokes. They see him as above them, possessing opportunity to elevate their life. And by giving him attention they feel he will grant them an opportunity.

You have to recognize your ability to elevate her.

Question: When a king marrys a woman what does she become (Even if she is the lowest quality woman on earth) ? Queen

If a queen marry a man what does he become(even if he is the highest quality man on earth)? Nothing. He's just the queens husband.

So you have to understand that as a man you have the ability to elevate a woman to her highest position. She can elevate you some, but she has no power to elevate you to your highest position. That responsibility is yours and yours alone.

So you get the girl by changing the way you view your own value. What do you have to offer? Get in tune with that, give it, and others will want to be elevated by you.

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Solid stuff. Very, very solid. I guess I need to work on my inner game if I ever want to truly approach one with the idea of "This is going to be my girl for the night", simply due to the fact that when a girl that isn't shy like her approaches other guys, the whole 'This guy is now my competition' outlook takes over when it really shouldn't be. I should be more confident that I'm the best person I can be, and at the end of the day let others respond to it.

I was at EDCLV a few days ago and had an experience with one. Thanks for posting.

A decent conversation. I can't stand girls who are overly quiet, plus I'm borderline ADHD, so silence isn't golden.

This is a generalization. I've dated party girls that were very intelligent and some not so much. It's the judgemental types that don't get to know them and understand that women, all people really, are more than just their outer shell and social personas.

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I'll only speak for myself here - not interested in party girls. I really don't go to bars or clubs anymore and I find women who drink in excess and can't handle themselves/drink to numb themselves to be not worth it. Sure - some are hot and they can be fun to have sex with (I've met a few VIA Tinder) but I quickly get bored with these chicks because they tend to have a me-first attitude. Most of them have a dark side and many can't hold a conversation, either.

Guys who aren't getting laid fantasize about these women and guys who are 'pick-up' artists tend to target them because these women are like injured animals - often drunk, sloppy, stupid and willing to give them the time of day.

I much prefer chemistry and a connection - from time to time I'll break down late at night and want a quick hook-up (Tinder) but I usually stay away from party girls.

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^ strong backwards rationalization here, probably a bit of copping too, since you clearly don't sarge in clubs/bars. Most of what you wrote is none sense.

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Apparently all Tinder girls and girls in shopping malls seem to segregate from night clubs apparently...It's like 'fight club' for girls.

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