Hey guys so today I aprroached a hb 10 stripper in the airport (not knowing she's a stripper). We are both flying to San Francisco our home towns. I start out by saying, let me guess you live in the Marina district and you hate the Tipsy Pig (bar in SF). She laughs and we begin chatting wth some small talk. It's southwest so our numbers are right next to eachother, we enter the plane at the same time and we sit next to eachother with me in the middle seat. I ask her what she was doing in Chicago. She said stand up comedy. I ask what kind of material she uses. She said she jokes about her other job. That's when I find out she's a stripper and has a 5 year old kid. We have more small talk and little kino. We watch a move on my laptop together. Mind you its a 4 and half hour flight. She was giving ng me IOIs but this situation totally threw me off guard. And btw I got her number within minutes of sitting on the plane. My question is how should I have escalated this better/quicker. I felt out of my comfort zone. How do I talk to a stripper in this situation? Should I have brought up the mile high club lol? Look forward to some advice on this. Thanks

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Sounds like you did well. Don't overly sexualize her because she deals with that everyday and will put a wall up if you do. Mile high club would have been a reach even if you had kissed her. Treat her like you would treat any other girl. Escalate like you would escalate with any other girl.

Call her and ask her out. Hurry up before she changes her mind.

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What were you expecting beyond what you actually accomplished (which was fine. You're A-ok I'd say)...

Do you know how hard it is to fuck on a commercial airliner? Not to mention unless the vibe was actually sexual your efforts would have probably shit the bed.

Call her. You're good so far.

And Jack beat me. Goddamn it

Thanks dude. I kept the chat very un sexual. I know she likes me but she just gave off this hard to get vibe (which is understandable in our situation). I didn't kiss her eventhough I was thinking it the whole time lol. Just didn't feel right in that setting. I texted her this evening and got a response which is good. I will definitely call her tomorrow

You did good.

Strippers are notorious for being ADD and forget who you are the next day. So make sure the number is solid and you for a meet up lined up.

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You could of definitely banged her in the bathroom if you pushed for it. I can't imagine a girl not being up to give that a try so long as the coast in clear. Who doesn't wanna be apart of the club? Especially a stripper; if she isn't already. Seems like an average non escalatory pull to me. So I wouldn't let it sit for long; you wanna give her a call the next day and arrange a meet up.

And I never watched a movie with a girl and didn't throw my arm around her. It alllows you to assert yourself over her. You can even jokingly do the "yawn" trick. Make it obvious, she'll laugh and you'll be in position.

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You are right about the non escelatory pull. My day game is pretty good. This was a unique situation, I though I handled it pretty well. But I definitely should have negged more (with her being a ten) and been more playful. The conversation was just pretty general like about family, music, movies and bs like that

That's all you need when a girl is interested in you. Most people use negs ncorrectly and they do more harm than good. (Please remove neg game from your brain)

Girls can can be attracted to you from the get go. All you have to do is be cool and lead it where it need to be led.

People that are 'good at daygame' tend to be shit at being physical since they rely entirely on their verbals

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The logistics of actually joining the mile-high club when you're flying in coach, packed in like sardines, and there's a 10 person wait for the 2 washrooms on the entire plane has never worked out for me (and I've tried it with girlfriends even).

Further, I got caught trying once... and had a conversation with the flight attendant who'd been in that job for 4 years at the time. She said she'd never actually seen anyone do it.

First class or business class, that may be another story altogether... or even a larger plane.

Maybe I've just been unlucky with my air-travel!

On a different t forum this guy made an LR, he said he sat next to a hot girl. Went well, took her into the toilets but had no condoms. So he went along the aisle and asked passengers for a condom and then eventually found one and delivered the goods.

I'm kinda sceptical if it's true though

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Haha that's ballzy. I felt I should have used some disqualifiers. She knew I was into her so she got me. Thoughts for my situation and disqualifiers for strippers in general?

Turn your game tactics off bro. No negs, no disqualifiers

Just arrange a date and continue the momentum

You sound inexperienced, you're gonna fuck it up if you're not careful

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I agree with this. You try running a game on a girl(stripper) that has guys trying to run game on her every single day while she's working and when she's off will send her walking.

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