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PostPosted: Sun Jun 21, 2015 12:19 am 
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I have a friend who a lot of ppl say I'm better looking than and I've heard it enough that I should believe it by now. Ppl close to me I tell them all the time. That if they didn't know what I looked like, and heard me describe myself. They would think I was the ugliest person in the world. Now I know I'm not. I feel like I'm decent. I have ppl tell me I look like Ryan gosling pretty often. (I work as a salesman btw) But back to the point my friend has that confidence and that way to talk to girls. I feel like in all honest I'm not a bad lookin dude. But my confidence and self esteem are so bad that I just can't do anything not even approach. So what can or should I do?
If you have bad self-confidence and self-esteem, I recommend you do 2 things:

1. Go and do things that feel the LEAST like you.

Get out of your comfort zone, do things that feel uncomfortable. At first, this can be
saying Hi to women that you see in the mall or the streets.

Then that can go into skydiving or something. Just find 1 thing a day to push your comfort zone.

This will grow your confidence. I've worked with 100's of guys all around the world so far, and
I can tell you - the best way to grow confidence, is to get out, and push your comfort boundary.

2. Go buy and read "6 Pillars of Self-Esteem" by Nathaniel Branden

This guy is the best at explaining self-esteem to you. Period. His books were the start of the
self-esteem movement, and I highly recommend him to you. Get into his work.

And lastly, I can help you with anxiety and insecurities. But you'll have to find a way
to get in touch with me ;)

Wish you best!

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 Post subject: Re: You tell me
PostPosted: Mon Jun 22, 2015 10:47 pm 
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I have a friend who a lot of ppl say I'm better looking than and I've heard it enough that I should believe it by now. Ppl close to me I tell them all the time. That if they didn't know what I looked like, and heard me describe myself. They would think I was the ugliest person in the world. Now I know I'm not. I feel like I'm decent. I have ppl tell me I look like Ryan gosling pretty often. (I work as a salesman btw) But back to the point my friend has that confidence and that way to talk to girls. I feel like in all honest I'm not a bad lookin dude. But my confidence and self esteem are so bad that I just can't do anything not even approach. So what can or should I do?
start off small - just go out and give people general compliments, "i like your outfit"

do that a couple of times, make eye contact while doing it - that will warm out up to get better :)

and set goals

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