Hi guys,

I need some advice on how to spend my free time.

I am right now a very succesful employee of a well known company, I earn an high salary and I have lots of free time available to spend. Basically, I have now everything ready to have a happy life, I just need a woman on it too.

At work I don't have much contact with interesting women because there aren't many there and they are all old, so I need to meet them somewhere else.

When I go to clubs and bars I notice that women don't care much about me because my looks and my personality are not exciting enough for them. Only if they notice that I work in place X and I am successful, then they seem suddenly interested, but only for the $$$ obviously and at that time I am no longer interested because that's not the type of woman I am looking for.

So..where do you think I can find intelligent and interesting woman that are also succesful in their lifes and are not just gold diggers? They must be somewhere, the fact is that I cannot find them in clubs neither at the gym.. I must spend my free time with other activities rather than going to bars/clubs/gym but I don't know which are the best options..

Your problem isn't your lack of activities to meet interesting women; its your lack of confidence. Are you out there approaching women? And why are you even bringing up your place of work to them women you speak with? There are a number of guys who are making half the money you make that are getting laid by the same women who you claim are gold diggers. How do they do it? Hell, if an unattractive woman walked up to me and began talking to me, and then suddenly revealed that she was a billionaire my interest would immediately rise. Am I a gold digger? No. She just presented herself as having some value that she wasn't capable of showing prior to revealing her finances.

What makes you valuable? If all titles were stripped from all man and all man was reduced to the same physical features how would you then get laid? Would skills, talents, or personality traits would you use to attract women? Your financial status doesn't mean a damn thing if don't know what makes you attractive. If you aren't courageous enough to walk up to the women you're attracted to and seduce them.

The activities you participate in don't mean a thing if you lack the confidence to attract women once you're in position with them.

You have to begin to ask " How can I become more attractive to women everywhere I go? What is it that I need to do to create attraction? What is it that attracted women before money? How do the broke guys get laid"

Women are only reflected back to you that which exist on the inside of you. If money is all you have, that is all they will want. Show you have the ability to both charge and elevate them emotionally and they'll stick around you for those reasons. Money must not be able to buy what you're offering. A womans cares more about how you make her Feel then she cares about what you can do for her.

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Hey brother,

You're asking a question most of the community ignores. The fact is, no woman will be impressed that you spent the last 6 days sarging 10 girls a day.

But the angle you're coming from is wrong. Please, allow me to explain.

The point of all of this, literally everything you've ever done, is to build a life worth living.

Yep. You came into pickup because it makes you happy. You work hard so it can afford you a life that makes you happy. But here's the problem - why are you abandoning that? Why choose your activities based on women.

I want you to understand a universal rule of abundance: Beautiful, smart, talented, passionate and amazing women are everywhere.

I've traveled to almost 30 countries over 4 continents and I want to sit down and cry at how immensely thankful I am for the incredible, unique and amazing women that have blessed my life over the years. If I die tomorrow, I dont think I would have too many regrets. Can you say the same?

Ok enough philosophy

practically speaking - just build a life for yourself that is centered around your passions.

What do you find interesting? What have you always wanted to do? Get out and do that. You will meet women along your way, all that's left to be interesting is to invite them along!

Don't know what your passions are? Even better because your life becomes an online shopping cart. "ouh I'd like to try that! This looks interesting!". I was reading a magazine once and there I came across an add with a man doing yoga outside with the sun rising behind him. It was for some health juice or something, but it didnt matter. I saw that and thought "wow. Imagine how peaceful and how beautiful that must be". Ive been doing yoga every morning since that time I saw the ad. I live in southern Spain now, and tomorrow night, a Swedish girl and I are going to do yoga on the beach and watch the sunset.

So it's really simple! Want to learn to cook? Sign up for a cooking class. You meet a beautiful young lady there who is interested in you (be interesting and they will be interested). You saw a groupon for a bachata class next week and you think it would be fun to try it out, so you invite her; "I'm going to take a Bacahata class next week. Why dont you join me... If you feel like your dance moves are good enough to impress me". Awesome! Bachata goes great. You either meet more women, which you can invite to the next activity, or you really like this girl. You've always wanted to host a wine tasting, so you invite all the people you met, including a few cute girls to your place - they have to each bring an exotic wine. Congrats, you now have an awesome lifestyle!

to your success brother

Your fan,
Mack

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salsa dance lessons, is a really good shout