Flow of Women
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I made a post here :
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=191036&p=915709#p915709 and thought it should be it's own topic and explained more.
So there I suggested to the man that he learn his numbers and establish a client base.
Using a system of getting a number, and using text to convert that into a date a man will discover that his culmination of things (race, weight, height, status, skills, style) will present him with certain static numbers of how many women you have to talk to in order to get a date, and how many dates you need to take things to the next level.
Weight, style, status, and skills are the only things in your control. Status and skills being the ones with unlimited growth potential allowing your potential to be limitless.
Well, that's what's been working for me.
So the practical advice you came for here. How to keep a steady flow of women in your life and reach the status of pimp? This is what I did and am getting back to.
Throw out the idea of AA because most girls you talk to will reject you anyway. Rejections are great you get closer to the close the more No's you hear. After all, closed mouths don't get fed.
Find your No number. Don't focus on getting rejected, but figure out first how many Nos you need to hear before you get a number. You should Get comfortable running 1 style and then pull data from at least a pool of 500 women. If you have a target audience in mind then go for specifics. This is the fun part because you can really break down what type of women best respond to your style. If 500 seems "daunting" then go for something like 2 a day and spend a year doing your test.
The testing here has many variables though, like day game, night game, the situation you talked to the girl under, group dynamics and shit. If you want to be really specific pick one type of situation and hammer in on that.
For the sake of this explanation lets say you love talking to a single set when there is a small window of time between the 2 of you like during the daytime passing on the street. Like some Paul Jenka shit.
Now, after you have some skills learned from a fairly reliable source when you see the situation you act. By the way all 500 of those women should not say no... You'll need to examine your style, weight, skills, and status to see what the problem is.
Lets say you are a solid guy with no problems in any of those areas. You'll start getting numbers. Turning those numbers into dates, and closing the dates. In that pool of 500 you should definitely close at least 1 woman. Out of 500 you should get Multiple closes. Anyway, after you've talked to number 500, and either got rejected or she closed, or went cold here is what you do.
Take 500 and divide it by your number of closes. Lets say I got 5 out of the 500. That means I know that I will have to talk to at least 100 women to sleep with one. This number is like a gumball machine though. Meaning I have a gumball machine with 500 gumballs in it. 495 are red, and 5 are green. I could get 1 green every 100. I might get 2 greens on my first two tries then not get another green until 274 more red ones come out.
You get the point. But that's why you draw data from a pool with many static variables. Like a science experiment, or marketing test.
These numbers suck btw and if it takes talking to 100 women to sleep with one you have a ton of room for improvement my friend.
This means I would have to talk to at least 100 new women each time I close one if I want a steady flow of women. The way to keep a steady flow is to always replenish your prospect base. Break down the numbers again. How many women do you talk to until you get a number? How many numbers turn into a date? how many new dates till a close?
Lets say in that 100 I get 10 numbers 5 dates from those numbers and close 1 girl. I need to focus on keeping 10 fresh numbers in my phone every time I sleep with a woman.
Meaning I have a batch of 10 the third girl I text out the pool closes. That does not mean I have 7 more numbers to work... It means I have to go get 10 more fresh numbers. I'll still work those other 7, but they most likely won't go anywhere, and my next close won't happen until I get 10 more numbers.
Many men waste time on each of these interactions. You close the third girl on your list and think you still have 7 more girls to talk to when they most likely won't go anywhere. You waste the time talking to them instead of talking to new women, and now your phone is empty. If instead of just relying on talking to those other 7 you use the time to collect 10 more (while talking to those other 7) and you'll constantly have at least one close in your phone.
When you know the numbers you can work to make them smaller by addressing those qualities of style, weight, skills, and status I described earlier.
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I recently heard the word inspirational statements stated by Charles Finley and it dawned on me. I will often tell inspirational stories to people. Then there is a pause at the end, and I'll just transition into something else.
When Talking to women I'll blend these into conversations. It's like I'm trying to make their lives better with some information that I am sure they have never heard of. I don't think this conversational habit is conducive to picking up girls.
It probably builds trust I suppose, and the story may be of value, but since 9-10 people are resistant to change 9 out of 10 people will respond negatively to it. Then they'll backwards rationalize some negetive excuse as to why they didn't like it.
Thoughts like "this person is arrogant", "know it all", :show off", or "look at him on his high horse" stuff will come to them as intuition.
This means for you reader, that if you want conversations to go smoothly 9 out of 10 times you need to not tell interesting stories or make inspirational statements during conversations with most people to be liked.
This would fall into the realm of trying to impress others. So fuck them and keep your gold for yourself, unless you feel like you're in the presence of that 1 in 10.
A good way to do this is to throw out a feeler. For me the stuff comes up naturally. Most of the time it happens if they bring something up and my mind jumps to something helpful and inspirational. So if I wanted to use this skill properly to get comfort, and be liked more by these women without the opposite of it's intended affect happening I would have to catch myself about to tell one automatically and critically think in an instant of a feeler.
A feeler would be casually throwing the idea out. Gauging the reaction in a positive manner, and then telling the story.
Thinking about this now, what I've been doing before was being reminded of something interesting off what they just said, and then delivering it by getting them to agree with something remotely related to what I want to say, and then just making my statement. Forcing backwards rationalization agreement to my statement and trying to be helpful and inspirational all at the same time.
So instead of doing that first, I'll see if they would be excited about the topic I'm going make my inspirational statement about. Excited and not just slightly interested. Their initial emotional state towards the idea will determine if they hang on your every word and love it, or think when you make one that it gets old and they don't want your help, and you are arrogant, and stuck on your own knowledge.
Dealing with haters - even close ones
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Hi! I've made a couple posts asking for advice on the constant hate that is thrown at me from people.
Jackzero has been the only person to suggest something so far based out of our ineractions.
If you're reading this, thanks again Jack. He recommended some knowledge on winning people to my side in the form of a book called Thank you for arguing, by jay Heinricks.
In the mean time, I read a few articles online today that I want to share with you, a man who may be having this same problem:
Turning Haters Into Allies:
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The oxygen for trolls or haters on social media is an argument. That's why most people think the best way to handle them is to ignore them. I disagree.
The best way is to engage them, but with respect. Acknowledge their point of view and start a conversation. They'll gain a lot of respect for your willingness to hear them out. Give them the benefit of the doubt and recognize that a lot of times, tone is lost on Twitter.
The only move is to be the bigger person. When people say, "Gary you’re so full of shit," I jump in and say, "Explain to me why. What can I do?" The moment you acknowledge somebody else’s point of view, you’ve already made the conversation more of a positive for you. Haters, a lot of times, just want to be recognized. Twenty to thirty of my biggest fans started off as haters. What happens is they gain a lot of respect for your willingness to hear them out.
As told to Inc. staff writer Issie Lapowsky.
http://www.inc.com/magazine/201311/gary ... aters.html
Just opening the door and hearing them out can work sometimes, and is a great start, but haters will often just keep hating relentlessly due to much deeper issues. Especially if they are friends and family members that you just can't immediately cut off, like a miss-behaving woman.
The next article is pretty long, but
read every word because in it there is gold that will help you tremendously with all haters including the ones who are closest to you.
The Ultimate Cheat Sheet to Haters
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It’s easy to get anonymous people to hate you. Have an opinion. Be creative. Be yourself.
But sometimes it gets worse. I’ve had death threats, legal threats, I’ve lost friends, even family, over things I’ve written. I’ve lost the respect of many I still respect. Articles get written then people hate me even more.
A hater can be anyone. A family member, a friend, a colleague, a teacher, a boss, or some random person you meet on the street or the Internet. People who were friends forever can suddenly be haters. You HAVE to have the tools to deal with it.
It always feels miserable. I am never cavalier about it.
I wanted to like these people in some cases. 20 year friendships. Friends I thought I would have forever. Now… gone.
Most haters are just invisible, anonymous, just trying to get in your head because that’s THEIR particular method of having a human connection.
Example: someone wrote a review of my audio book the other day:
“SIMPLY TERRIBLE… the author should NEVER EVER read his own books again. He has a lazy, mumbling speech that made it difficult to give him credibility right off the bat. He sounded a bit disinterested, like it was a bother to pass along these precious gems on knowledge to us, the poor miserable audience.”
I’m not fishing for compliments. Some people like my audio book, some people don’t. But it reminds me of 7th grade, when we had to take turns reading from a book in a class called Woodshop.
Who would’ve thought that in Woodshop I would learn all the basic skills that allowed me to build businesses and develop meaningful relationships later in life?
Well, not me, and I was right. I learned nothing there.
The only great moment that happened to me in woodshop was when the prettiest girl in school ran up to me and said, “Quick, quick, what psychiatrist talks all the time about sex?” And I said, “Freud” and then she ran away to have a deep conversation with the woodshop teacher twenty years older than her.
I definitely don’t remember what we were reading in the woodshop “book” that day but when it was my turn to speak, Christin Herholz said, “oh no, not HIS voice again.”
So maybe that reviewer is right. Maybe Christin is actually the reviewer! Synchronicity! (Jung).
No matter what we do in life, we get some people who hate us, who make fun of us, who gossip about us, who backstab us, who take money from us or do something to try and ruin our reputation, who threaten us, who tease us, who frighten us.
SO LISTEN TO ME: these are the rules how to deal with haters – the anonymous ones, the ones in your face, the ones at work, the ones you can’t avoid, family, and people you love.
It’s hard to do. Sometimes I can’t do them. But bit by bit I get better at these rules. And when I get better, I can see better results in my life. I hope you will also.
I) IT’S ABOUT THEM
This is a bit of a cliche but it’s true. Behind every Anger is a Fear.
Whoever hates, is also afraid of something. This doesn’t mean you say, “poor baby, he’s just afraid.” But it’s just worth noting.
For instance, in the above review, the reviewer said, “the poor miserable audience”. Maybe her fear is of being poor and miserable and so she hears someone saying that to her no matter who is talking. This is her problem in life right now.
Often people say, “oh, don’t worry, they are just jealous.” Maybe they are. Maybe they aren’t. We can never read their minds.
It’s none of my business why someone thinks something of me.
But something is going on in their lives that is bringing up a fear. And they indulge the fear by having an anger towards you. By projecting their own fear onto you. For a brief moment, you become the monster that has been hiding onside of them.
Anger is just fear indulged.
II) IT ALSO REALLY IS ABOUT YOU
Most people who hate me I never even think about. But some haters push buttons. Some accidentally know how to get under my skin.
Or not accidentally. Like when a family member hates you and knows EXACTLY what buttons to press (“you never bathe”, etc).
When someone pushes a button, I get angry and maybe even defensive. But it’s NOT because they said something horrible.
It’s because under the fleshy armor of rage, I’m afraid they might be right.
I might not even admit this to myself. They put the knife in, after all, so I can accuse them. But the reality is I might be twisting the knife in even further.
Take the above example again. I pulled it out from 100s I could’ve used. Not because it was particularly mean. But I just realized I then told you a story of what happened to me in seventh grade when a girl made fun of my voice.
So maybe I really am afraid I have some weird sort of voice. I don’t know. It’s just worth noting to myself.
When all you do is “note” something to yourself, it at least separates it out from the non-stop chatter in the head. It lets you identify it and put it in it’s own special cage. This makes it easier to identify and deal with and maybe even learn something about yourself.
III) THE 24 HOUR RULE
If someone attacks you in any way, you might get bad feelings. If it’s a public attack then others might get bad feelings. People will say, “Jane said this about James so he must be an idiot.”
Or it might an office politics attack. Or an attack in a relationship.
The 24 Hour Rule works in almost every case. If you never respond to the initial attack, it goes away in 24 hours. If you respond EVEN ONCE, then reset the clock. It’s another 24 hours as it spreads through the spider web of human interaction.
This is why some battles go on for years. Nobody stops responding. The attack continues until one person dies. And as the Onion states: World Mortality Rate Holds Steady At 100%.
IV) THE 30/30/30 RULE
I had a few posts where I stole the same image of a woman doing yoga poses on a beach. I got some criticism for always using images of a sexy woman. I also got criticism for taking the images and not giving credit.
Then the woman in the images actually wrote me. I told her I was getting this criticism.
She told me her whole beautiful story which I included in my last book. But one thing she said was that for every creative thing you do: 1/3 will love you, 1/3 will hate you, and 1/3 won’t care.
Which means you should do what you love. You should do the best you can. You should try to do the things that will help you improve every day. And when bad comments come, just put them in that 1/3 bucket where it belongs.
V) DELETE
I’m always happy when someone disagrees with me. I don’t mind that.
But often people are incapable of expressing disagreement and it comes out in a way that is obnoxious or hateful.
When I can, I delete them. I can put “delete” in quotes. Sometimes its not a blog commenter but someone in real life. I delete them also. I don’t speak to people who are bad for me.
What if it’s a boss or someone you have to speak to? Well, I don’t engage with them. I let them do their thing. I nod hello in the hallways. I don’t kiss anyone’s ass to get them to like me, not even my daughters. Everyone gets their time in the “time out” box. And eventually, they can come out again if they behave.
What if it’s someone screaming at you on the phone? Just do this: “I have to go”. That’s worked against me, particularly when I was younger and wanted to scream more. “Why are you DOING THIS TO ME!?” And it felt very painful.
But it made me behave better next time.
VI) HATE IS CONTAGIOUS
Someone tweeted awhile ago: “James Altucher = #humangarbage”. I don’t know why he tweeted it. I didn’t know who he was. But I got angry for a second. I didn’t follow any of the above commandments.
I looked him up. He works at AOL. I tried to figure out how to get him fired. He made his one tweet but then it gave me maybe 1000 thoughts.
The worst thing you can do to your body is stab it. Anger is an emotional stab at your emotional body. Some religions say you should show compassion to your enemies. I don’t know. This is really hard to do.
The best I can do is recognize that I don’t know this person, and that every additional thought is another way for me to stab myself. Then the infection spreads inside of me, consumes me.
I don’t like to stab myself.
VII) YOU’LL NEVER KNOW
I could’ve contacted the guy and said, “I just need to know: why do you think I am human garbage.”
But this is one of those death bed moments.
People have said, “I am really glad I found out why that random stranger called me human garbage” on their death bed exactly zero times in the history of the universe.
There’s no need to know. And even if you do finally know…it will always turn out there was no good reason.
VIII) RESISTANCE IS FUTILE
Let’s say someone does actually have a reason for hating you. And it’s easy to refute. Like they hate you because you are from Rhode Island but actually you are from Canada. You can say, “But I’m from Canada” and they will say, “Ugh, that’s even worse.”
Nobody ever changes their mind. Change is hard. Quitting cigarettes is very hard, almost impossible for many people.
Hating is even more addictive so imagine how hard it is to change someone’s mind. Facts don’t matter. Defending yourself makes it worse (see the 24 Hour Rule).
Even a history of friendship doesn’t matter. You can say, “We’ve been friends for 20 years. Are you really going to let this get in the way of that?”
And the answer is “Yes.” Because they can’t help themselves. Because it’s about some fear they have. Because it’s about some fear you have. And never the twain shall meet.
IX) THEY LOOK STUPID HAVING SEX
That’s all you ever really need to know about your haters. They all grunt and drool and look stupid.
If all you do is think of this rule about someone who hates you, then you can ignore all of the other rules.
X) TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS
Hate can’t last forever. Often it turns into a dull simmer. The sun that was so bright at noon, becomes a haze of purples and deep orange by twilight.
This doesn’t mean that you and the hater are now friends. It just means that the wound that was opened will eventually close up, and leave a tiny scar, a reminder but nothing more. Whether it was a betrayal. An ex-partner. An ex-lover. A commenter on a blog.
The key is to practice shortening the time.
You do this with the other nine commandments above. You do this with the daily practice of physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual health I recommend in my book.
I say “the daily practice” not because I want you to buy my book. Don’t buy it. It’s so easy you don’t need to read anything other than the above paragraph.
Do all this and the hate passes right through you. It’s hard to avoid all the haters. They are in your face sometimes. But you can do these methods.
For some people hate and anger and bitterness and regret last for years. Sometimes the time it takes to heal a wound lasts longer than a lifetime.
This is a waste of a lifetime.That’s ok also. Nobody is requiring you to have a fulfilling life. It’s totally your choice to waste your life.
And since many people will hate you as you stick your head out of the sand again and again (as I hope you do), you will have many opportunities to ruin your life. Enjoy them.
Sometimes (not every time) the more people who hate you, the more it means you are getting out of the comfort zone. You are creating and growing.
But hopefully your woulds heal more and more quickly. I say “your” but I really mean “me”. I hope my wounds every day heal more quickly than the day before. I wrote this post for me.
When a hater takes his or her stab, I try to use the above techniques to maybe learn about myself. And if I can’t learn a lot then maybe I can learn a little.
And if I can’t learn a little, then at least I will try to avoid getting sick.
And if I don’t get sick, then I will try to be thankful. And I move onto the next thing I can do. The next place where I will try to find love, creativity, and fulfillment.
http://www.jamesaltucher.com/2014/03/th ... th-haters/
I like this article. It has a few conflicting view points against the first. One attempts to create a bridge with the hater, and the other basically talks about dealing with them in a way that they just never will stop hating, so you learn and grow and become a better person.
Thinking they look ugly while having sex (the second article) is cognitive dissonance to put the hater down and make yourself feel better. I'm not going to do that, and you shouldn't either since it's fake.
Putting it together
I believe what I'll do, and what I recommend for you, is to classify haters into 2 categories. Potential friend, or growth opportunity.
I had a guy back in high school who used to talk shit about me in the back of the class every day. He would rally 2-3 other guys to join in on the fun. I felt humiliation every day and challenged him to fight several times even though I felt like he would kick my ass. He never did, and it turns out he saw a drawing I had on my binder of a show he liked, and was just trying to get my attention. Even in a hostile way.
Had i known then what I know now I would have tried to build a bridge with that guy on that first day of class. Then I would have had a new friend instead of dealing with an enemy all semester.
So all haters are potential friends, at first. I'll try to build a bridge with them using the question from the first article and charisma. If it fails they get put into the growth opportunity category and I'll use the cheat sheet commandments to deal with them.
I'll be back to re-read this post a few times. You should too. Have a great day!
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I just made a post that was worth expanding on in a thread I felt.
In that post I basically said a person needs to be allowed to choose his own personality.
In there he as what personality is best for getting women.
The answer I gave him was best for him to hear.
How I think about this topic in a generic manner is different, so I'm making a post.
In general you need to be as ruthless predator. This plays back into the instincts of a woman.
During the first great war of man. The war fought before the discovery of fire. When Giant Man eating animals attempted to slaughter our entire families in pitch black fire-less nights.
A man had to be ruthless, he had to have courage, he had to be intelligent in order to outsmart the many giant beasts. He had to be willing to fight to the death at a moments notice.
He had to be social most of all. Thinking about a time like this... A lone man was lunch meat. I'm sure there were more predator species out there than there were humans walking the earth.
He had to be confident enough to socialize with other humans to form protective social circles. Confident enough in himself to assure her they could survive a horrific and uncertain period of time.
He had to be positive. His outlook always had to be on the up and up. Because life depended on it. If he was always negative and gave up on things easily it would basically lead to death.
He had to have drive in his life and he needed to be active. A sloth who spent all day doing what ever they did for fun back then would starve and die.
You had to be trustworthy. The survival of the group depended on co-operation. The people who lied and cheated others in the group caused disharmony and if not expelled would threaten the lives of everyone there. If the girl chose one of these guys she'd either have to leave with him and have her children face the monsters of the night, or stay and lose a mate and father making her parenting job much harder.
If you think about it, most traits that a woman despises in a man if applied to that period of time would have lead to death.
So, if we were to take an animal and apply these qualities to it, I would say you would have to be like a wolf as the perfect example of what type of personality works best for getting women.
Among themselves wolves have all of these qualities and more. Study the wolf, emulate the wolf.
Plan for becoming a true player.
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I'll define true player status when I'm more of a wolf on the inside opposed to what I am today, and when pulling women isn't something I get rusty at if I don't practice, but an integral skill which is part of my core personality.
So I'm making a baby step plan here and performing it in the field report, any tips on the plan would be appreciated.
Week 1. Say Hi to 100 stranger women I find attractive to get rid of AA. I'm also learning new PU advice and watching videos, and practicing the stuff in my own home making everything natural and flowing.
Week 2. Attempt to close 1 new number each day. and say hi to 100 new women I find attractive
Week 3. Attempt to close 100 new women I find attractive.
Week 4. Attempt to close 100 new women I find attractive.
Week 5. Attempt to close 100 new women I find attractive.
Week 6. Attempt to close 100 new women I find attractive.
Week 7. Attempt to close 100 new women I find attractive.
Now that I have 500 approaches under my belt I can break down my numbers.
viewtopic.php?f=25&t=191081
Then keep the appropriate number of prospects at all times. This should turn me into the wolf I want to be,
viewtopic.php?f=25&t=191082, and make me transform into the next version of myself.
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What sparked this thread is a conversation I had in chat where a guy claimed he wasn't a pua, but used natural game. We were talking about a girl who asked a question on how to get a guy back who went cold via text messages. He claimed the stuff that worked on women could work on men...
BTW I'm of the stance that strong male dominant body language and strong psychotic eye contact are not attractive qualities I look for in females.
Back on topic -
A PUA is a guy who is good enough with women to get them to do something they had no intention of doing from the start. That is it.
The artist part of the term being the point of it all. There is an art to persuading women with no immediate intent into doing something you want them to do.
A PUA is not a guy that plows through 99 rejections to find the one girl who would have been interested in him regardless of what he says.
A PUA is not just a guy who uses manipulative tactics and performances. If guys who do this can get women to do something they had no intention of doing from the start then he is a PUA, but his type does not define PUA as a whole.
As far as what you do, it doesn't matter - you could have read no PU books in your entire life - if you can get women to do something they had no intention of doing from the start then you are a PUA.
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You've made 64 posts in 3 days. Congratulations.
What the fuck was the point of this one?
Rejection is part of life. Everyone deals with rejections.
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Nice to meet you too majikal,
On the 64 posts note I'll tell you straight up, my schedule involves me living at home paying no rent while my mother foots all of the bills.
I could work because I have a degree, but she agreed to let me stay here while I start a business after she lived off me for a year, got on her feet and got herself a house.
My day is waking up and doing practical magic from initiation to hermetics (sadly I'm still only at level 1), checking the forum, going outside for a few hours talking to women, then coming back here, checking the forum, and then reading books and acting on my business plan, while periodically checking the forum.
Now that that's out of the way, to answer your statement...
Yeah a PUA faces rejection, often, and I never said he would persuade every woman he meets because that's common PU community sense that something like that doesn't exist. However, he sure as hell does not face 99 rejections to get 1 close. A person using a "PU" pedagogy like this is not an artist, therefore he is not a Pick Up Artist. He's just a Pick Up Plower, workhorse, a skilless man who is no different than an average joe who has 0 game but has common sense and the ability to walk up to 100 women.
People who play the game here are playing it on easy and do not deserve the honorary term of artist because there is no art involved in that man's craft.
If I had her, You can have her, It don't Matter
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Hey, thanks for stopping by! Let me tell you a quick story.
A while back I had a roommate living in my apartment. One day he came home talking about this girl who took him to a swingers club. While there he said she annoyed him because she wouldn't let him fuck, so he ditched her and had a threesome with some lesbians he met in the couples lounge.
I knew she wanted to fuck, otherwise they wouldn't have been in that environment, and she was just giving him LMR. The girl still hung around my roommate, and he introduced me to her and asked me to ride with her to go pick something up.
In the car i started to steal the girl, which culminated later that night when she jumped in my bed to next to me to "just" lay down. Right...
So did my roommate get jealous? Did we start to argue. No not at all because he was a true player. Even though he didn't fuck he didn't care, and when he did fuck girls he would happily pass them on to me. He's now married with a kid.
You can have this mentality and still end up happy if you know how to handle women.
Handling women
A quick contrasting story, I had a friend who thought he was a player, he was pretty good, who I called ugly. He then went on to say how if me and him were whispering in the same girls ear (him on one side, me on the other) than he would take every one.
So I saw this as a challenge. He often brought different women around, So I targeted the best looking one. After holding a few meaningless conversations and barely showing her any interest I found myself outside the club with her in a one on one situation. She had the most beautiful eyes I'd ever seen, and I had a sudden urge to kiss her.
So I did, and surprisingly she responded enthusiastically (remember I had not been "gaming" her). After that i started hanging with his girl a lot outside of our little social circle. The dude got upset and wanted to fight. It shocked me because I thought he was a true player and had many women. (the back story of this girl is that she actually had a boyfriend and she was cheating on her boyfriend with my "friend", and he often bragged about how the boyfriend knew but was too pussy to do anything about it.) Even though he had plenty of other women, and this girl had a boyfriend, he was still jealous of me out of insecurity.
The moral of the story and lesson I want you take away today is that the ability to get women mean nothing if you are insecure on the inside. You won't get happiness through just that. You also shouldn't be arrogant enough to think that other guys out here don't have the ability to take these women your'e with. Be secure enough in yourself to not be crushed or enraged when it happens, and you'll always have happiness.
CHAT
