Hey, thanks for stopping by! Let me tell you a quick story.

A while back I had a roommate living in my apartment. One day he came home talking about this girl who took him to a swingers club. While there he said she annoyed him because she wouldn't let him fuck, so he ditched her and had a threesome with some lesbians he met in the couples lounge.

I knew she wanted to fuck, otherwise they wouldn't have been in that environment, and she was just giving him LMR. The girl still hung around my roommate, and he introduced me to her and asked me to ride with her to go pick something up.

In the car i started to steal the girl, which culminated later that night when she jumped in my bed to next to me to "just" lay down. Right...

So did my roommate get jealous? Did we start to argue. No not at all because he was a true player. Even though he didn't fuck he didn't care, and when he did fuck girls he would happily pass them on to me. He's now married with a kid.

You can have this mentality and still end up happy if you know how to handle women. Handling women

A quick contrasting story, I had a friend who thought he was a player, he was pretty good, who I called ugly. He then went on to say how if me and him were whispering in the same girls ear (him on one side, me on the other) than he would take every one.

So I saw this as a challenge. He often brought different women around, So I targeted the best looking one. After holding a few meaningless conversations and barely showing her any interest I found myself outside the club with her in a one on one situation. She had the most beautiful eyes I'd ever seen, and I had a sudden urge to kiss her.

So I did, and surprisingly she responded enthusiastically (remember I had not been "gaming" her). After that i started hanging with his girl a lot outside of our little social circle. The dude got upset and wanted to fight. It shocked me because I thought he was a true player and had many women. (the back story of this girl is that she actually had a boyfriend and she was cheating on her boyfriend with my "friend", and he often bragged about how the boyfriend knew but was too pussy to do anything about it.) Even though he had plenty of other women, and this girl had a boyfriend, he was still jealous of me out of insecurity.

The moral of the story and lesson I want you take away today is that the ability to get women mean nothing if you are insecure on the inside. You won't get happiness through just that. You also shouldn't be arrogant enough to think that other guys out here don't have the ability to take these women your'e with. Be secure enough in yourself to not be crushed or enraged when it happens, and you'll always have happiness.

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"Keep your head up in the sky, you just a baby."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HccL8jUIIWU - Adoration of the Magi Lupe Fiasco