Ok so a girl I dated still speaks to me, it's only friendly but I see it as practise. I think my main problem is that my chat isn't the most exciting. How do I improve my conversation skills? What type of questions do I ask? I just feel like I'm asking the generic stuff like what what she is up to at the weekend. I really want to know what is good conversation topics.

Good topics are things that make her feel good and excite her. Always focus on stimulating women emotionally and sexually. Whatever gets her excited is what you want to talk about. Also make sure to cut off bad topics, like her complaining. Don't be rude about it, but let her (briefly) finish and steer it elsewhere. Some girls like to mope, so that can also be effective, I guess. I just don't personally find myself interested in that sort of woman.

If you don't know what makes her excited, start trying to find out. To be a little contrived, even say something like, "I'm a pretty tired after last night, but really happy. If that makes any sense". She'll say it does. Ask her what it means to her. She'll probably either give you a story or an example. Odds are, this is an important thing to her.

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Its not practice man.

It's a waste of time.. Learn when to let go. Where have you been implying this said practice? And what is just texting your ex going to do for you future with women?

Many men lose self esteem by "holding on", and leaning on the comfort zones around them. If you were getting out there everyday meeting new women you wouldn't need an ex to practice with. You would have consistently have new women for "practice"

She's old news man, and holding onto her only gives you and excuse to not pursue new women.

Go actually meet some girls.

The only thing you need to practice is "taking risk", the only thing you're practicing right now is remaining in your comfort zone. And doing so won't amount to the reasons you're on the forum.

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I'm still talking to other women at moment, I met a 21 year old flight attendant who was hot, although she is working away a lot so don't get to see her. I still don't see a problem talking to an ex i'm not exactly really trying with her. the more girls you talk to the better you get at conversation.