So I'm just getting into the community. I tried going out to clubs or bars by myself, but none of my friends want to open as many sets as I do, or they get discouraged after the first failure. So my question is, is going to the bars by yourself creepy and lonely or perfectly acceptable? I know many PUA's can do this flawlessly, but as a newbie starting out what difficulties would I face? How challenging would it be to not just pick up girls, but to meet people.

For some more background, I can easily hold conversation with people, I just get timid at the first sign of resistance. So I'm hoping for tips and tricks.

Any advice is always appreciated!

Its definitely more challenging. But its doable without a doubt.

Its like teaching yourself to ride a bike as opposed to having an instructor. You'll fall a lot more and make a lot more mistakes but once you get that thing going you'll be off. Its all about breaking that barrier of discomfort. I've found that the best way to do that is to do rapid approaches. Approach 5 women in 10 minutes. Get that motor going. If you're the guy talking himself up for a half hour before each approach you'll never get into the zone(unless the approach is successful). Even if you approach 30 girls that day. If they aren't one after another you won't have the fuel necessary to not give a shit.

Go out bro. Use what you have. You'll meet people as you keep going out. Its not like you're going to snap your fingers and make friends magically appear.

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Yeah I figured that it would be more difficult. Alternatively I never felt right leaving my group of friends to go talk to women, and vice versa. Guess it's going to be a long journey.

Thanks for the advice guys. I'll let you know how future endeavors go.