Hi im new at this game and tried the newbie mission. Im no that an oit going person but i get the concept of getting out an meeting new people like the mall. The problem is how would i spot girls on a mall alone withoit getting creepy. Another problem is if she is walking how would i approach her without looking like a staler and lastly how would i approach a girl out of context like for example i saw her at starbucks and im just walking alone. It is easier for me to approach when i have friends from a far but when im alone i can not and it is hardfor me to approach a cute girl

If you think it is creepy and awkward when you approach girls, then they will feel it. If it's not a big deal to you, then they will feel comfortable around you. To open a walking set, you need to walk slightly ahead of her and talk to the side and walk with her. It is possible to stop her in her tracks sometimes, and she may stop walking herself and hear what you have to say, but it is way easier to just walk with her because she is on her way somewhere and this allows you extra time to game her and see if you can instant date or get her number. You don't need friends to approach, but if it makes it easier for you, just go out with your friends and start approaching.

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Thats a good point. Would that also apply pickin up at closed contained space lile car pool or while commuting? Also could you give me tips how to overcome that mindset of beingcreepy and awkward?

I think once you've done it a few times you'll see most girls find it flattering (assuming it's a direct approach), even if they have a boyfriend or aren't interested in a date. Once you see this, I think you start seeing a few good reactions you'll realise that what you're doing is a good thing

You'll get some girls who find it weird, but I personally have had enough good reactions to know that these girls are the weird ones. Usually the ones who are not very social

any suggestions where to meet girls other than starbucks? or any other hangout place?

The only guys that look like creeps are the guys that are the most concerned with looking like creeps. The greater your fear, the greater repulsed a woman will be by you. If there is anyone thing that turns a woman on it is confidence /courage.

If there is anything that turns a woman off its fear/insecurity.

How do you over come this?

You get out there and keep approaching until its become second nature to you. You break through and destroy as many comfort zones as possible so that you can feel like and behave like yourself in situations that others may find awkward.

Its going to take time and consistency to develop, just as developing a nice body would take time, dedication and consistency. This is about building your emotional body. So you have to treat it the same way. You won't always notice changes in your body after individual work outs, but that doesn't mean changes aren't taking place. And you won't always notice changes in your comfort state after individual days of approaching but that doesn't mean change isn't taking place. Stay consistent and work at it and eventually you will get to where you want to be.

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