I open HB 8.5 at bar with her friend. We have what seems to be a good talk. She's trying to interrupt as I talk to her friend. I'm purposely ignoring her briefly and talking to her friend and she keeps trying to talk over me to get the conversation directed back towards her. But then I go to pull out my phone and they walk off. Later that night, I open two HB 7.5 right in front of her. Not on purpose, just happened to be there. I gain massive value from the guys near by to open the two HB 7.5. I start kino with them and we're talking, but then one is getting cold. So she wanders off starts talking to hot AFC guy near by but her friend is really enjoying my wing, so she lingers a bit longer. Then this 3 set of HB 6.5 that I opened earlier in the night and I guess I insulted one of the girls when teasing walks by and starts flicking me off, so I respond playfully and happily flicking them back off like a joke (I'm not gonna let them affect my awesome mood - and this is not the one flicking me off and re-initiating). Then another HB 8.5 that I had a great vibe with earlier walks by and I call her over. She walks over, we talk about where she's going after. I say we're going to get tacos and pull out my phone. She smiles and puts her number in. All this happens in front of the first HB 8.5 from the beginning. Well about 2 minutes later the first HB 8.5 bangs on the window outside the bar and starts doing the flick off thing that the HB 6.5 girls were doing. I think clearly she saw me with the HB 7.5, then being flicked off with the HB 6.5, then getting the number of the HB 8.5. Is she jealous? Is she reinitiating in a good way? This doesn't seem like good IOIs; however, I guess 'any press is good press.' So obviously the fact that she's paying attention to me, I could possibly reengage and change around her feelings to positive ones again - since she's seen me with lots of girls and preselected after the HB 8.5 gave me her number right in front of her. I responded to her by flicking her off playfully through the window, too. Kind of like MM flick off opener. Anyways, I want to push through the hard sets and fucking pull everything, so what are you guys thoughts on how to reengage and move forward?

You can turn hate into love man. They're polar opposites of the same thing.

If you've made her emotionally, she wants to engage with you to express herself.

A text like " Tacos? "

Would be all thats necessary. She'll do the rest.

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Yes exactly! I believe hate is just as strong an emotion and you can turn that shit into love! But the thing is, I didn't get THIS girl's number. I got another girl's number in front of her, then she flicked me off. (Sorry the explanation of what happened was jumbled.) I learn best by example, so what are examples of ways to re-initiate when there is this kind of tension. Do I open like before? Do I act like I'm sorry for making her jealous? LOL.

Women are creatures of the moment. Your best bet is to open as if it never happened. You're not tied to her emotional issues; those are her own. Now if she wants to bring it up thats another thing, but for you to would suggest that, you're being a reaction to whats going on her in life emotionally. And that is not a man she is going to willing to follow. You guide her through her issues, you don't allow them to become apart of your paradigm.

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