I’ll be doing online dating in the future. My plan is to have coffee on the first date, dinner on the second date, and on the third date, I want to meet up at her place and go for sex (or oral) on that date. When I say meet up at her place, I mean having the entire date at her place, not having a date elsewhere and then going over to her place. I definitely don’t want to bring her to my place for various reasons. We’ll both take our own cars and meet up for the coffee and dinner dates; I don’t want to pick her up.

I’d really appreciate some input on how to do this (specifically with regards to online dating).

First of all, is this a plan that can work?

How do I make this work? What should the logistics be?

What are the different things that we can do at her place (like what should I say we’ll do on the date)? How should I bring it up when I ask her out again for the third date? And anything else I should do. I’d prefer to do it on the third date, not earlier.

If she prefers to go to my place, what are different excuses I can use to not meet up at my place?

Putting the cart a little before the horse, are we?

Why aren't you online dating right now?

You'd be shocked how hard it is to get to a 3rd date with a semi-decent chick via online dating... And you sound like you're already picking out the floral arrangements for your wedding.

Online is flake heavy.

I would advise you to be flexible and just go with it. A coffee or a drink on a first meetup is a great idea, like you've suggested. You want something fast so you can ditch her if she's a nut; and you want something close to your place so you can convert it into something more if you really click.

Worry about dates 2 and 3 after date 1.

You could get a girl to your house or go to hers on the first date if you know how to talk on the phone.

But aside from that you do sound to be getting ahead of yourself a little bit. Women aren't machinery that are going to twist and turn exactly how you like them to.

You have to learn how to manipulate everything they throw at you for your benefit. Thats what its about. Theres no fool proof blue print.

Why not do a couple test runs first and then come back and ask for advice?

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