I came out of a relationship of over a year.. we were very close friends for a while before that , and things eventually progressed to a ltr level..

When the breakup occurred it hit me hard it ended in September of last year, which is a while ago but it truely did hit me like a ton of bricks.. i lost my self confidence, lost a ton of friends keeping in contact with them during the relationship, and also just all around stopped talking to other women.

Coming out of the relationship i did end up seeing a pretty cute latina girl, but that was very short lived because i was a emotional trainwreck.

Right now iv'e been to the bar a couple times now in the past couple weeks , and my game is just a absolute joke. I can't hook sets, cant talk, cant carry a conversation i even bore myself when listening to what i have to say.

I'll give a example i went out with a friend and opened up a set of 5 girls.. figuring what the hell do i have to lose invited them to come back to our crib for a after party. well one girl out of the group liked me, i asked what her name was .. but didnt give mine waiting to see if she would ask what it was.. and she did , anyway i ran out of material and she made some stupid joke and i said aww thats babycute stuff and went to play with her nose trying to be kinda a dick/funny.. her friend turned around in a fucking raging fit and said DID YOU JUST SAY BABY CUTE.. i told her who the hell does she think she is, we went back and forth.. she ended up turning her back on me , and that was the end of that..

Just before the bar closed i did end up getting my first number in quite some time, but i know the girls level of interest isnt really that high cause she wanted to go with her friend to get another drink rather than continue talking.. so i took the achievement and just deleted her number right afterwards..

Guess my goals are right now to

-Approach more i still have some slight approach anxiety i want to overcome it
4 Approaches per Hour .. get to the bar earlier like 11 or 10 - so 12+ approaches per night and do this at least 4 x a week ( 2 days day game )

- Vocal Tonality / Facail Expressions / Smiling
Warren Buffet once said one of the greatest assets you can learn is taking acting lessons, having people like you is a key thing.

- Use online dating to start typing, texting, and calling girls to get use to that game.. What i like to do is set a profile in a different part of the country so when i am ready and confident i can just switch it over back to where i live.. ( i feel live game is way more important anyway because it makes you strong on your core, and is alot harder )
- Overall learn to make the girls smile/ and have fun.

those are my main goals SPAM if i cant go out with my friend tonight im going to have to sarge alone, and the thought of that sucks at my age 28.. so fukn blah but here i go

circled the block a around times cause i couldn't find a parking spot, than was pulled over by the police.. fortunately was no ticket, i was already running late.. and dunno how my friend always manages to find a spot when we hang out at the bar we park on a side street every time..

> key note - make a list tommorrow of different different bars / pubs / dance clubs w/e to go to.

anyway i'm just going to start fresh monday.. tommorrow im going to go over to the library get a private study room, and go over all the material i have such as the pua seasons, mystery method, various other books i have picked up such as no more mr nice guy, and watch some keys to the vip..

i'm going to make a habit out of making sundays my study day since im always off work that day.

also to make up for the lost day today , i'm going to see if i can go out tuesday night, and also start visiting some titty bars during the day when its free to talk to some hired guns when im going out that same night.. i have read it takes a couple approaches to warm up to a socialable mood..

ill keep a update monday .. when i get off work have to head to the mall to pickup some sunglasses , so ill do a min of 4 approaches, which should be really easy to accomplish.

can't believe its been 7 days since my last post..

anyway i realieze sarging alone is alot harder than it sounds and its something im going to have to do and overcome this upcoming week.

i tried going out with my friend, and i was a trianwreck in the field.. i have severe approach anxiety, but worked through it approaching a around 7-8 sets .. and was getting better through each one..

i was starting to throw in some negs, stop asking so many questions especially ones where it shows im mr. nice guy and building comfort right away, and start learning to stack some routines while multiple threading because i get stuck and burn out really fast.

i did make a cute lifeguard smile at the pool, started using correct body lanague, and im working on my smile lol.. its important.

this week im going to have to work on fixing this , im going to concentrate on just one book the mystery method, and when i get to 200 approaches start learning the blue prints book.. i dont want to overload myself..

anyway im pretty disappointed in myself for this first week cause im better than this, and can try alot better.. ill come up with a update next sunday

goal since lets say i did 8 is to double it this week to 16.. which still is a low number, but will be doable

Mystery Method is out-dated, bro.

Look at some new age stuff.

don't believe that at all.. women just don't change in the course of a few years, i have used the material in the past and it has been proven to work.. alot of these puas or gurus are former students of his just branded a new name of seduction techniques following basically the same wheel of the mystery method.

while its good to learn and always stay sharp , i refuse to believe a whole segment of mystery method is obsolete and you cant learn anything from it.. i will continue using it till i get my first 200 approaches.

I feel you. I am basically same case. My game was getting really great two years ago. Now it sucks. I am getting numbers, but I am just numbers collector. I usually go sarge alone, cause my friends are freaking AFCs, who are "too cool to go to bar or disco" and when they actually go, they are standing in the corner. (but I just found wingman in my city, so hopefully it will change soon).

And I am 29

thats not true - there are lots of other methods that are completely different. and its not like mystery method was always great. it was just that there wasnt anything better around 10 years ago.

investment game is 100 x better than scripted game. routines are good for specific scenarios, natural game gets you better in general, so you dont have to keep going back to the "guru" for advice for those specific scenarios.

if you do it correctly you can complete your 200 sets in just 4 days or so. hope you found this useful

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I'm in the same boat. I'm 28, only have one long term relationship that ended 3 years ago, and have struggled with attracting women my whole life, never dating in high school or college, even though I’m good looking. Online dating was a failure, 2000 women messaged and 4 dates that panned out to nothing.

A few weeks ago something changed in me, something sparked inside me and said it does not have to be like this and enough is enough, at this pace you will get noone, or you'll end up with the wrong type of women. 2 weeks ago, I started my journey from AFC to PUA. I challenge my self to approach 2 women a week and try to get their number, after a week an a half passed I had approached 6 women.

I still have a lot of work to do. I need to work on my tone of voice and making eye contact. Some reason when I make lasting eye contact with a women, she looks paralysed

This should probably be moved to Field Reports. You'll get more relevant responses too.

Anyways, Stop using MM. Why? You're still gonna feel like shit. It's much more effective to improve yourself.

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