Hi guys,

I'm new to this forum - I'm 22 and from Australia. I've never had problems making out with girls at clubs - I used to be too scared to approach them, but it was okay because they generally used to approach me. I am now a lot better at the approach - I would say over the last 2 years on average, I hook up with at least 1 girl per night (sometimes 2 or 3 girls in a night) but generally don't take them home.

Some Questions:
1) I've had 2 occasions recently where I've picked a girl up at the club, made out with them all night, they explicitly stated that they desperately wanted to come home with me. The only objection (from both of them) was they didn't want their friends to think they were a s***. I didn't have any responses for this.. Any tips?

2) I went on 2 dates with a girl recently, and on the 2nd date she explicitly stated (about 5 times) "I really want to **** you" however she had the same objection - she doesn't usually sleep around and wanted to wait. How do you respond to this objection?

3) Until last week, I was a virgin. I watch plenty of porn, I make out with plenty of girls but have never had oral or sex. Last week the girl I was with went to give me oral, and I lasted less than 30 seconds. She tried again about 20 minutes later and the same thing happened. Is this normal for the first time? Will it get better, or should I look into solutions for premature ejaculation? Does it have anything to do with watching porn regularly etc?

Any help would be great!

Alex

Premature ejaculation solution: BREATH. Your breaths become rapid and shallow when you're aroused and if you let the arousal get out of control through rapid breaths you will shoot the energy outward instead of keeping it in. Slow, long deep breaths consistently through the entire experience. Practice that shit. Your ability to last long in the sac in dependent on it. So don't just wait until you're getting a BJ to deep breath. Practice it NOW all the way up until that moment.

" I don't want to feel like a S***" - Throw it right back at her.. Hit her with rationale " Are you going to think I'm me as a man whore if I have sex with you now?" she'll say "no" and then you say "Then why would I think of you as one? We're in the thing together. I can't have sex without you"

They usually just need a little persuading to get over the defense mechanism. Talk them through the emotions.. Make them see it from your point of view.

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Breath... ? Lol

How about have more sex? Also, you can stop before you burst, then resume. I use that tactic quite a bit.

If I go for a long time (a week) without sex, I'll bust early too... no shame in it, just do it again after a break!

Thanks Eddie, some great suggestions. I like the idea of throwing it back at her.

Any more suggestions?