So in small towns the pool is small. Very small. But even if I were not looking for a complete 9-10 I would like someone who isn't a misfit.


In small towns these misfits make theirselves known by not being like the rich, the working family types, the spoiled rich types whose parents are loaded, the religous. They are the type that surround drugs(and not designer drugs), losers, the constant recycling of the uneducated drunk jailbait boyfriends who dropped out of school who dates other lowlife types in their circle and league.

I did not graduate high school, currently have no car, the receding hairline(a currently decent haircut though) and of course skinny, tall, and have no muscle at all. So how the heck do I get someone on a dating site that is not what I just described?

I am trying to get my license finally at almost 34 and once I do and get a car, I will be able to take the next steps in my life that I have not been able to.

Move to a big city = more volume = more chances with the girlies

I know it's not the answer you're looking for but seems like common sense. This is what I did and I find one of the most common sticking points with the guys in the community.

Go to school? - Move school
Stuck in your job? - Get a new one job in the new city
Need to look after your sick dying mother? - Perhaps come back to pick up 'later'

You just have to figure it out or you will just have to deal with the regrets when you're an old man

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1. As Pebble said, move cities. You're lucky enough that you live in a massive country with millions of women - I live in a tiny island country where there are less than 100,000 people TOTAL, and where travel to even neighbouring countries is ridiculously expensive. That being said, I'm currently powering through that.

2. PUA isn't magic. If you want people of value, you yourself need to be a person of value. Work out, become more ambitious and finish your GED and higher qualifications, seek a better job, etc. Improve your own personal status and it will be easier to attract women of a higher calibre.

The double post was not intentional. My router's internet was going in and out and that might have been where the double post happened.


On topic here, I have wanted to work out for a long time. The thing is I have a fear now of having a six pack. I really don't care about tight abs. I just want to look stronger, but not like a bodybuilder. But I don't think its a requirement honestly in this state to work out. Moving to a bigger city is not an option right now. And I can lie about my job. I'm just looking for ONSs nothing else.

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