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I know I should never EVER say crap like "I would treat you right", "It would be different if you were with me", "I really care about you", etc. That is basic.

That being said, I'm trying to game an old friend whose boyfriend is constantly flaking on her, borrowing her car, taking her to "romantic dinners" at the local Pizza Hut, etc.

So, what is a Alpha, not needy and not obvious way to make her see her life would indeed be better with me?

So far, the only option I see is updating my facebook whenever I do something cool with another girl but I don't like exposing my life for the world to see.

Any help?

And alpha is a guy who will constantly flake, borrowing a girls car, taking her to "romantic dinners" at the local Pizza Hut, etc. and not give a fuck. His presence is liberating enough.

And alpha is also the guy who won't flake, has his own car, and takes a girl to nice dinners that doesn't give a fuck. His presence is still liberating enough.

Its not the "what" man.. Its the "how. "

Its something thats developed internally, its not something that is directly related to your actions.

You can be and asshole Alpha, a nerdy Alpha, A criminal Alpha, a Laid back Alpha. We come in all different shapes and sizes. Its all about the value you put on yourself.

She's currently accepting what she believes she deserves and you want a way to say " you deserve better", but she doesn't believe that because if she did she wouldn't be tolerating less that she feels she is worth. You're trying to "Save" her and you know what happens to guys that do that.

" don't save her, she don't want to be saved"

What she wants is to be elevated from the inside to a level in which she feels worthy of more. She's not there yet, and thats going to take some time.

If you want to be her friend, bring her up, and then try your luck you can, but I can't imagine her or any chick being worth that much trouble.

You're in love with a fantasy. You don't want the real girl. Trust me.

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"I know I should never EVER say crap like "I would treat you right", "It would be different if you were with me", "I really care about you", etc. That is basic."

Says who? Is that a set in stone truth? Do you blindly follow dogma? If you follow other's truth, who follows yours?

"So, what is a Alpha, not needy and not obvious way to make her see her life would indeed be better with me?"

By being Alpha, not needy, and by knowing that her life would be better with you.

"So far, the only option I see is updating my facebook whenever I do something cool with another girl but I don't like exposing my life for the world to see."

So you betray your own values in the hopes of impressing a woman? Would an alpha do that?

You're not finding the right answers because you're asking the wrong questions my friend.

Always remember: the quality of your life is dictated by the quality of the questions you ask. Do you want to remain small, confused and unimportant, or are you ready to be magnificent?

With love and respect
Mack

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Thank you both. Point taken.

BTW, Eddie, how would I "bring her up"?

By being "up" yourself.

If you were to hang out with me, you would instantly raise in status. And not by association. I would challenge you, I would push you to step out of your comfort zone. I would engage you in intellectual conversation. I would teach you what I know. My energy, presence, charm etc. would all rub off on you. We become more like the people we surround ourselves with.

My understanding of the value I bring into the interaction is what allows me to project a frame that a woman wants to be around. I take her on emotional rides, I'll make her laugh, I'll correct her as needed, I'll touch her pleasurably, I'll turn her on, I'll turn her off, I'll make her mad, I'll make her happy again. She becomes more like a queen every time she is confronted with my presence because of my confidence in what I have the ability to do for her. Its an experience. So I don't necessarily have to buy dinners. What I'm bringing to the interaction is far greater than anything she could pay for.

This comes with knowing your value, and you have to know it first, and it will rub off on the people around you.

I'm sure that fellow(her BF) as much as an asshole he may seem like knows his value and because of it feels worthy of hanging with her whenever he feels like it, and using her car. And she accepts it because he was projected what he feels his value to be onto her. And it just so happens that she sees her value as being low of enough that she'll tolerate it.

You can have more value than any woman on this planet, but you have to work yourself up to that level. Thats what my work consist of.

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She likes the emotional abuse dude. She doesn't want a guy who will love her like you will. She wants a guy who's going to treat her like shit, cum on her back, take her beer, break shit on the night stand, and not respond to her calls for days at a time. Not your loving ass.

She wouldn't appreciate it anyways... Get over this whole "save a damsel in distress" thing and find girls who actually want your love without you having to convince them to want it. It's not your job to be Captain Save-a-Hoe.

It depends. Does she have a pattern of dating only douchebags, or is she just into this one? Because if that's not a pattern, it's probably just because he's much better at fucking her than other guys. You fuck her as well(or better), and she'll drop him, fast. It's a small number of girls who are actually really into guys who treat them like shit. It's even more rare if she isn't suffering from outside issues, like a drug or alcohol addiction.

9/10 non-emotionally damaged women do not prefer to date guys like this. But the power of a good fuck is quite strong.

You are thinking about this all wrong though. You don't need to make her think you'll treat her good. She is probably already aware you'd make a better emotional boyfriend. You need to get her turned on by, not get her to feel like you're full of good qualities. The only quality she needs to see in you, is a likely good fuck.

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Way too much trouble for what she's worth. I'm out.

But to make sure I gor it right, if I were to pursue, I should always be at my best, nice clothes, hang out at cool spots and that "I am the man" attitude, which is pretty much what I should be doing anyway, in order to "bring myself up". And, on the other hand, keep up the kino and seduction to present myself as a good fuck. Again, what I should be doing anyway with any other girl.

BTW, nice touch with the "Captain Save-a-Hoe", Majikal.