so a friend introduced me to this half breed jap
we were drinking at my place four of us
the problem is she seems bored and keep on using her phone
i keep entertaining the group and her making stories and gimmicks but she seems unresponsive
i flirted and was teasing she just answer for the sake of answering and after that day we met again
at a pizza shop she was loud on her male friends what i see shes not even interested even being friends with me

how do you handle this kind of situation help

Some girls start like that because they are naturally shy and really do not know how to flirt with men they are attracted to. Could be the case since she is open around guys that she does now. Or...she thinks you are gross.

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Shy people will take an opportunity when it comes their way. Doesn't seem like she did.

She doesn't sound interested. Actually she sounds incredibly lame to be honest. Not sure what you see in her to begin with.

The happens to every guy that interacts from the position of "Trying to get something".

Ever have someone clearly trying to sell you something and you begin giving them one word answers so you can hurry the interaction and get on with your life? They're draining you and care nothing about you; their main concern is only what they can get from you.

Now what would happen if someone came up to you from the position of trying to give you something? You would talk to them as long as needed because you want what they have. And its going to cost you little to nothing to have access to it.

This is where you are. And it seems that many of your questions on the forum all revolve around a similar position.

You don't know your value or you don't believe you have any, and because of it you're trying to get value from all the women you are interacting with.

This isn't some easy fix that someone is going to be able to give you a simple answer to. You've become condition to think a way that you're going to have to recondition yourself out of.

Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character, and your character becomes your destiny. SO with simple auto suggesting( thinking the right thoughts over and over) you can begin reversing your mindset into one that women will instantly recognize as valuable.

What do you have to offer? If you don't know, this is the problem and you need to spend sometime figuring that out. People will give to you when you first show a willingness to give to them.

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we went out again..
she isnt shy
she does talk to me but more likey a friend but does not interact long
i can make her laugh
but when i flirt i feel resistance
her friends said that she makes guys struggle to get her shes playing hard to get or im not just her type
i think its the normal way of courting i hate its concept...where the process will be months or years
where the guy follows and chase the girl
i showed him im a confident guy also the alpha..
she seems independent

@fewds can you tell me examples of things that i can possibly offer.. humor? i believe i can give her a good time

Him? Are you taking a guy or girl out?

Anyway, every girl likes to be "chased." This is not a month or year process. You act like yourself, bending for no one and put yourself out there. Be sexual if that is you, be naturally flirty and have fun because what is the point of being around her if you are not having a good time? You are not there to prove anything to anyone because if there is one thing you need to remember above all, it is that no one gives a F*CK about you. No one cares about your moves, how smooth you are, if you get blown out or get your d*ck wet that night. So, what do you have to lose now?

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alryt... so i persisted and i found out shes not that of a friendly and accommodating person
i just went with the flow have fun with her friends slowly gaining her trust and comfort
i used the 5 lie game routine to bet her on a date the condition was a win-win
if i win ill take her to a date if she wins ill treat her (her condition 0.o)
i will set the date this Wednesday

my plan was to take her to a jap restaurant then take her to an overlooking view
of the city

any advices how not to fuck up on the date?

and whenever i see her i get emotions that disables me to talk and think to full capacity
how do i suppress this feeling