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| Kris86 | PostPosted: Fri May 22, 2015 2:37 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri May 22, 2015 1:35 am Posts: 1 | | So gonna try to make this a short as possible. I met this smoking hot girl on POF 2 weeks ago and since then she would take sooo long to respond back to my messages but she did responded. I got her number and we have been texting back and forth. She continues with the late replies which frustrates me so much but I haven't told her and I wont either. I got her to go out with me and we ended the first date good and the next day she agreed to go out with me again...I felt like I should've kissed her on this second date but me being stupid I didn't. Well the the day after that we starting texting and I felt her different...she would respond with just one word answers and I just noticed her differently...I really don't want to assume anything here but im afraid I might have fuck something up which I don't think I did...either way any advice on what to do? I kinda don't want to ask her if something is wrong that I notice her differently but should I? any advice on this, I really like this girl and what to go out with her again, any advice I would greatly appreciate it. thanks!
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| CharlesFinley | PostPosted: Fri May 22, 2015 2:40 am | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Sat Apr 13, 2013 6:17 pm Posts: 3427 Location: Toronto, Canada | | 2 dates and limited escalation without even a kiss?
She's sick of waiting for you, man. Thinks you're a lame duck because you can't go for a simple kiss.
That's the issue.
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| Eddie Fews | PostPosted: Fri May 22, 2015 12:24 pm | |
| Offline | | Read My Book |  | Joined: Thu Jun 27, 2013 8:08 pm Posts: 5028 Website: http://www.EddieFews.com Location: New York City | | You don't ask if something is wrong, thats a sign of emotional immaturity. Clearly something is wrong if her behavior is not what it once was. You don't have to ask whats being laid out there plainly for you.
Its one girl, you didn't make the proper move, and now you have to move on with your life.
This is one reason women get so frustrated with men.. You went on two dates with the girl, ONLY two dates and now you feel like she owes you something that you weren't man enough to go for in the moment. So you're talking to us about how to get what you want, but while she was in front of you, you couldn't figure it out. Do you see the insanity there?
You only knew you should of kissed her after you lost her. How many other times in the relationship will this play itself out. This is how women think. " IF he couldn't even kiss me when the moment called for it, how is he going to be able to...(insert something of a higher level) when the time calls for it"
They're always building from the bottom to the top. Men are building from the top to the bottom.
One girl man.. Just one and only two dates. No big deal.. What do you do? Take the lessons and do better with one of the other 10 MILLION women on POF. _________________ Need Coaching? For 1 on 1 Coaching via SPAM, Phone or Instant Messenger - Email: EddieFews@Gmail.com
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| Ryanm74 | PostPosted: Sat May 23, 2015 1:32 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon May 18, 2015 4:13 am Posts: 18 | | After the first date, if it went ever well ill go for a hug. Second is usually a kiss. Usually if she wants a kiss she'll wait around and move alittle bit more than usual. Good tip to try. After you hug them, don't let go. but have enough room for you to talk and see each other and smile. after she smiles say you had a great time and go in for a kiss.
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