“Stubbornness almost to the point of dumb optimism [allowed me to be successful].” Tom Horton, former president and CEO of American Airlines.

You don't get it. You're wasting your time actively pursuing this girl. She likes the attention that you're giving her and she enjoys knowing that she can reject you and you'll keep coming back. Any attempts or routines to actively pursue her keeps you exactly where she wants you and that's in her orbit.

Step out of her life for a while and find another girl or more girls.

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@JackZero

Amen! Looking at all this I think this guy is just trolling especially after he said oneitis doesn't exist and no hanging out with someone isn't considered dating. She isn't interested in him and he's falling all over himself for her after a whole month. He's like a fly that keeps on coming back even though it's getting swatted at.

@basic noob

You've already proven that you're desperate for her approval and that she doesn't have to do anything to earn yours. She can just sit there, reject you and she's can mistreat you any way she likes. And calling you names? No I was calling you exactly what you are and I'm not going to say things that you want to hear just because you want to hear them.

She's not worth your time and don't ask for advice when you wont take it. Maybe it's why you've never learned anything when it comes to girls because you wont listen and just keep doing the same thing.

Like JackZero said move on and ignore her... she should need to EARN your approval, not the other way around. You wanted to learn how to not be an orbiter anymore, that is how. You are wasting time that should be given to something way more productive or someone way more productive.

I'm done with this and best luck to you because trying to teach someone who wont listen to anything or anyone because it's not what they want to hear is pointless. Without the desire to learn and better one's self they wont ever learn or be taught.

YES oneitis exists. YES it takes hard work and perseverance, but you have already burned down all the bridges by making one too many mistakes. You kept telling yourself from the start she was interested when she rejected all your advances. In other words READ THE SIGNS. You are investing when she wont. It's not giving up. It's raising your value of yourself because right now you aren't showing your worth. You are putting her on some pedestal. She's human.

Alright I'm done with this and any posters on here I'll warn you stay away from this. It's a waste of your time just like it is for him. Good luck to all.

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Get out of the "defensive habit". Your answer to everything = "Yes, i already know that." If you know all of it, then why are you where you are? Everybody starts off at level 0.

There is no "in it" or "out of it". Women are more stubborn when it comes to making up their minds regarding sex but this probably has more to do with their social awareness rather than a solidification of their attraction to others, If anything, it's women who are more likely to sway their emotions back and forth... "I love you...." ... 5 minutes later, "I hate you..." as you age, and meet a bunch of women, you will figure out what triggers various emotions.

Right now, you know exactly what to do to make this girl tell you, "I hate you! I never want to see you again!".... Figuring out the opposite of this is really much easier than it seems... but you have to get rid of your idea thst you've figure most of it all out. This very idea that you've somehow "gamed this girl" to some degree is a "repulsive" mentality... that all you need to figure out is some magical kino tricks or routines...

Take it easy... start living... start having some fun. Let me know if you understand the attached link.