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Looking for specific skill based techniques here. (That work on most women obviously they differ to a certain extent)
If you are good in bed you will be able to answer this/ know what the question means.
I am not the smoothest guy at getting girls into bed, but once I have them there, I am pretty good..
I have learned the following from being both praised and criticized for good and bad sex... it sucks if you get criticized ... sometimes girls will even accuse you of not letting them get off ....they can take it personally and hold it against you for life .... so try to learn the following..
Eat her pussy. Put as much tongue pressure/stimulation as possible on her clitoris. It's like a mini penis.
Just try to imagine what you would want if, instead of a penis, you had one of these clitoris things.
Also, the edges of the vagina lips are very sensitive as well. You can rub your finger along them to stimulate them.
Both these things should make her get wet.
Also, you can stick just one finger, really, into the opening of her vagina to get it wet. Not too far, at first, but farther as it gets wet... Keep doing this until you can get your finger all of the way in..
Now, let's assume you're in front of her vagina and she's lying on her back, and you're holding your hand palm up and sticking your pointer finger into her vagina. Once it's wet and you can stick your finger in further, you should push your finger in and UP... like underneath the bone you can feel ... it feels like it would hurt her but for some reason she will really like it... massage underneath there, but one finger maximum...
Repeat the above combination of stimulation of the clitoris, lips and that bony part (under the "mons pubis") using your lips, tongue and forefinger, and do it until she says she's coming (she will at some point),,... just go crazy and also you can hummmmm while you're eating her pussy and it will send vibrations into her clit, like a vibrator.
If you've tried all of the above and she doesn't come, it's definitely not your fault. She may have an illness. But I've never encountered this.
My biggest mistake in sex is not doing the above... If her pussy tastes completely disgusting, which is common, do as much as you can with your fingers...
My second biggest mistake, aside from not doing foreplay, is coming too quick, but, you can be a lousy fuck if you have done enough foreplay ..because it doesn't really matter because she's already peaked. So you can have sex with her at that point and even if you can't bang her correctly, she will be back for more.
If, however, you want to bang her correctly, and not make mistake #2, use missionary position and go for that same part underneath that bone you feel, except this time, use the tip of your dick... Try to experiment with different amounts of penetration and make eye contact and try to get a sense of what is and isn't turning her on..
Aside from missionary, ask her what her favorite position is, but make sure you've already gotten her off by eating her out, if you want her to admit having a favorite position
If she has one, do whatever that one is, but only as long as you can stand it .... if it's riding you, you may be screwed, because it's really hard to not feel like you're going to blow your load.... try to think about something else, like your math homework.... if you have to stop her, go back to missionary.. and then back to her favorite positions as long as you can hold out..
in missionary, that's really ideal, because you have total control and you won't climax as long as you slow down in time.. that way you can keep going for a while.. hours even..
I can't last very long with anything but missionary, really... Know your weaknesses, I suppose, because if you come too soon she WILL tell all of her friends and your friends. I'm serious. But if you really please her, she will share the good news... so, keep in mind that your work will become public news, and uphold your end of the obligation to please ...
Anyways, you should probably try to fuck her until she either comes or fakes an orgasm... after that you can come and she'll be happy... If you end up screwing her for too long, she'll get sore and that's probably not a good thing..
But, like i said, if you ate her out, you should already be golden... There's no way you will blow your load too soon by eating her out, so this is really where you should start if you want to make sure you pleasure her and that she'll be back for more.
This whole time, you need to pretend like all of this just comes to you naturally and you just got caught up in the moment .... not like you planned it out... otherwise your sexual skills will make her think you are a perv.... so just act like it's no big deal if she tells you that you were really good.. just say thanks and smile. don't talk about how much porn you watch
This is the best I can do.. Anyone else want to jump in, feel free..
Wear a condom...