I'm fed up with myself. Yeah, there's probably a million posts on here like this and tons of guys who say that but whatver, here goes. I am fed up with myself becuase I do not suck. I have so much potential. I see it every time i'm around women and actually try. I have never actually went after women 100%. Just like everything else in my life, I go after it to the point where it's almost enough, but don't ever quite go over the bounderies, in fear of being noticed/ being different/ fully going after what I want. Whatever the reason is, I never go after shit 100%, it's always 90% and then I taper off. I want a constant 100% on SOMETHING in life. And, I feel like game is something I NEED to at least try 100% just to get it out of my system. As guys, we all know the feeling of wanting girls. We have all had it since we were 10 year old boys. I STILL have it an I am 25 and it is only getting stronger. That coupled with what I see from myself when I actually give it some effort makes me sick.

Honestly I think I have felt above people who do this stuff seriously and talk about it a lot, and meet up with eachother constantly to just "sarge." I always tell myself, 'you don't need to do that Jim, you can just go out with your good friends on weekends, and break your comfort zone and talk to girls with them and you will be fine.' 12 drinks and $150 later I realize EVERY TIME i was wrong. Well, it took me three years to realize that is NOT enough. My friends are timid and shy and although I love them and hanging out with them, they are NOT the types of guys to approach girls with. I think it's time I admit I cannot do this alone (or with my friends), and I need help. It's so weird because I know when I am gaming i'm fine but I just can't get myself out there to game with my friends, and I don't like going out alone. I think it's time I got some wings in the city and actually went after this on a daily basis.

I'm just so fed up withmyself. What I personally want is a girlfriend that I love and want to be with and she wants to be with me. I know I can get girls at bars, and I wouldn't mind getting 1,2, or 20 of them while I look for a girl to settle with, but that's the end goal for me. I'm just so sick of going into work, passing all these beautuful girls and never saying HI, because society says that's weird, don't talk to strangers, don't interupt people. What the hell, who cares, I'm not getting what I want so I should do what I want. Then I can persue other goals and dreams (although that part of my life is actually doing very well.)

Side note, anyone in NYC who wants to SARGE, PM me. Feels weird and "pick-upy" saying sarge but I don't care, I'm in this 100% now.

That's great that you're willing to push yourself all the way now. Sometimes we all reach a point where we're fed up with where we're at and now want to do something about it. I used to have the same mentality you've had. I was afraid of success. I had friends who were timid and didn't approach as well. I thought to myself, "What if I become really good with women? Can I maintain that lifestyle? Can I still hang out with my old friends?" Those are all limiting beliefs and you should go after what you want in life. You can still hang out with your old friends from time to time, but if you want to get this part of your life handled, then focus on approaching with other like minded guys or do it yourself because your friends might put you down for trying to change and better yourself. I'm in NYC right now and know a bunch of wings that regularly go out. I'll send you a PM.

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Sounds good man, thanks, look forward to hearing from you

Just be sure this isn't some temporary rage that will be hear now, expressed on paper and then fizzled out surely after. Many time if we just hold tight and don't express these things they'll be the fuel that pushes us into action. Its is when we whine and bitch(not saying this is what you're doing) about our circumstance that we lose that passion as it left us and got down on paper.

I'm in NYC and I personally don't understand how anyone in this city could pass all of these women and not go after the ones they want. It annoys me when I see guys staring and just doing nothing.

I don't go out "sarging" - I haven't since I was a teen. Especially in a big city. We're surrounded by women, all you have to do is go after the women you like as you're doing your daily routine. Heading to work, headed to grocery shop, taking the subway, etc.etc. Theres women all over the place. You can't go 5 blocks here without seeing at least a 6.

Theres a quote I'll post that has helped many of the guys I've worked with propel themselves into action.

I will act now. I will act now. I will act now. Henceforth, I will repeat these words each hour, each day, everyday, until the words become as much a habit as my breathing, and the action which follows becomes as instinctive as the blinking of my eyelids. With these words I can condition my mind to perform every action necessary for my success. I will act now. I will repeat these words again and again and again. I will walk where failures fear to walk. I will work when failures seek rest. I will act now for now is all I have. Tomorrow is the day reserved for the labor of the lazy. I am not lazy. Tomorrow is the day when the failure will succeed. I am not a failure. I will act now. Success will not wait. If I delay, success will become wed to another and lost to me forever. This is the time. This is the place. I am the person.”


― Og Mandino

Implement it man. But you have to act on it, more than you'll talk about it or you'll turn that passion into words, and not motivation to approach.

Talking the talk is for the guys that aren't walking the walk.

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Love it, thank you. I completely agree, there is no need to "sarge" in this great city of ours. But I am a pretty big pussy when it comes to approaching, I need some help getting myself to do it.