Not sure where I fucked up. Had a same day lay with this girl, second day we just chilled..... and suddenly she ignores invitations to hang out. responds with 1 word answers. And today I called her to get coffee tomorrow and she said "I think I have something going on..... but ill get back to you...." I just laughed and told her to take her time thinking up an excuse.

She was telling me that she felt funny around me and that she was falling for me, the night before. I can't figure out what went wrong. I chilled for a couple days and just contacted her again for the first time today. Is there a way to not lose this shit?

There are way too many possibilities here and the best course of action for you would be to move on.

Maybe you were horrible in bed.

Or maybe you were fine and she just feels ashamed for sleeping with someone so soon.

Or maybe she's going through some shit in her romantic life and sleeping with you just complicated things when she thought it would make things better somehow.

Or maybe you swept her off her feet and she's scared that she's developing such strong feelings for someone new so fast.

Or maybe her emotions pendulummed the other way hard after the two of you split as if she "woke up" from a dream and "reality" made her realize that her feelings for you were bullshit for some reason or another.

The best you can do is to just be available for her to reach out to you if she wants, but give her some damn space. Besides, there's no reason to get attached to this one girl already.

Lol

Bro.

Just chill. If I had to guess, i'd say her interest began to dwindle as you became overly interested after the same day lay.

Pull back. You're pushing a door that says pull right now expecting it to open. Listen to the sign. She'll show up again.

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