Hi eveyone,

I wanted to write this topic and mabye get some advice on how to fix my approach to girls. So like you can guess, I have a hard time approaching women. And that's not because I have approach anxiety, because I don't. The problem here is that I don't know how to approach a woman I never met before, and I don't know werther or not I have something in common with her.

The thing is my game is pretty good when I know the girl. It's no problem for me to escalate, seduce her, be sexual and everything. As I was younger I ended up a few times in the classical friendzone, but I'm the type of guy who when he sets his mind to something he won't give up untill he gets shit done. So those friendzones were some huge sources of experiance for me, and I know how to get out of one, and thanks to that I learned how not to end up in one again, and what to do to seduce a woman.

But then when I see a gorgeous woman on the streets or in the club, I wish I could get to meet her, and then escalate from there on.

I've seen lots of videos on how to approach and stuff, but to be honest, I sometimes just don't give a fuck about what she likes or not. I know I should get interested in her and get to know her, but sometimes I just can't think of what to say to her.

Even if I could think of a great opener, I would like get stuck there.

Once I know at least something about her we can talk and talk and talk. And I have no problem there cause I know what and how to do everthing afterwards. But it's the approach and the thing that comes after it that bother me.

Plus I really don't know how to open online either. It seems like everything I say I write on withe background with white letters, and they just don't see it. Not a vrey pleasing feeling.

So If you guys (who have field experiance) could give me some advice, that would be awesome

Two things come to mind here... If you feel truly attracted to someone, you should feel an URGE to get to know her. If you don't, maybe you should ask yourself if you really want to talk to her. Sometimes we guys approach because we feel that we "have to", because we're needy.

Second, most people are more or less following a very predictable protocol or script when meeting new people. They start asking standard questions - the dreaded interview mode. You actually HAVE TO ask these questions sooner or later, to get to know the girl. Just don't stack them on top of each other, because that'll get boring. So my point with this is that you can as well have some kind of routine to get a conversation started, as long as you don't do it like in Mystery Method. Just a few standard questions will do, and improvise from there.

The absolute best way to approach however is from a completely different place. When you are in state, when you have fun, just babbling about shit you find funny, having your own party, are open and social and just talking to everyone, man or woman, without anything special (like pickup) in mind. That's when you'll have the most success. Talk about nothing, or anything, without purpose, and the rest will come naturally.

The more you approach you're going to realize that what you say doesn't matter as long as you have a positive attitude when meeting women.

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Pretty simple dude. Don't over think it.

Yeah I know guys but, the more I tought about what I wrote in this post the more I realised that a one night stand if what I'm aming for. Cause every damn time I get intimate with a girl I make her fall in love with me, and what I would really want to do now if find someone to fuck and that's it.

I've come out of a 1,5 year relationship like 7 weeks ago, and to be honest it crushed me. (you can read more about it in the inner game section, where I also to be honest got no help like I hoped I would). And cause of that in some way I'm aware that I'm needy sometimes. As a matter of fact, it breaks me when I think of her or get remembered in some way, and I just can't stop that and don't know how to deal with it like I should.

That's why I wanna learn how to have ONS, and not make her fckin fall in love with me. Yeah and also how to have a mindset so I don't do the same thing xD

Cause really, I don't want to feel this way again where I just feel like the easiest way out would be to die. Untill I have found the right one (if it ever happens cause I tought for this one that it was her), I don't wanna wait. I still wanna go out, meet beautifull women and, sorry for being to honest but, fuck their brains out.

type in on youtoutube "pua goodlooking loser" he talks about being direct but aggressive at the same time meaning grabbing her hand while talking and the one's that stick around are more likely to be women who want to fuck. If you watch about a dozen of his videos and looks at his website and go out and apply it a few nights a week your game will improve alot for getting fast lays with cuties.

Then take her out, have a great time and just hold that sexual vibe. One thing I do not believe men understand is that if a woman agrees to go out on a date with you, you only have to hold the sexual vibe as it is ALREADY there. The whole time leading up to the end of the date (the time she zones out because you suck) she is thinking "do I look hot, he looks hot, how am I going to explain why I had sex with him, will he think I am a hoe." After it is said and done you continue your life brother. Do not be cold towards her but if she seems to be trying to turn it into more then be up front and say you are not looking to date.

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