It is finals week and the tension in my college can be felt all over campus. The campus looks greyer and everybody has the no sleep zombified look but that is neither here no there. Sorry if this is a bad report new to this whole forum thing.


Wednesday Night (One ITIS FML)
Stuck in the library all night working on a huge project that's worth about half my grade, and after a while I just said screw this and went to the bathroom when I saw my college crush HB10 (lets be honest shes not a 10 more like an 8, but I have developed an infatuation with her). She is sitting working on the computer she does not even see me so in ten minutes I go again and again and again until the fourth time in about a 45 minute span till we just happen to meet eyes. I immediately walk over in order to avoid over analyzing or letting self doubt creep in. We start a fluff conversation something about finals, and she says im being to loud and that we should go outside. I agree and jokingly tell her she owes me coffee (starbucks is right next door to the library). We have some more fluff and we end up talking for 3 hours all the while I make sure to keep heavy eye contact, kino (VinDicarlo's escalation ladder is such a great tool), and we begin talking about past relationships. She does not believe in monogamy and etc. I act cool and smile. She says she has to leave and I tell her Im walking her to her car its late and she originally tells me no but I don't take no for an answer. We get to her car and more fluff talk till I see her copy my body language and SHE EVEN MENTIONS IT TO ME. SO I did what any guy would do and I went for the K close. We spend the next couple of hours making out next to her car or in her car, and its the best make out of my life. (she is 25 and im 19). After two hours of her shoving her tongue down this convo takes place

"Can I get your number?"Me
"No... I don't want to lead you on"HB10
"Excuse me??!?"Me
"Im leaving to Ecuador with another guy in two weeks"HB10

so after that I was floored I developed a crush on this girl about two to three weeks ago and cant get her out of my mind.

Sticking points
Why the hell did I admit to her I walked to the bathroom four times just to talk to her
I need to quit asking and start being more direct and assertive "Can I" to "Lets"
Reading palms is a gold mine of a technique so her eyes sparkle as I read her palms
Maybe Im just a shitty kisser

Thursday Night
By the time HB10 left last night it was midnight and I had exactly 6 hours to start and finish a ten page paper. Somehow and someway I was able to finish it and slept the rest of the day and went to a free concert that night to celebrate. The moment I walked in I introduced myself to the first person I saw a rough looking biker dude who could have killed me. I should mention at this point the concert is at one of the roughest bars in my town and I look like the white Steve Urkel, but with a great sense of humor. After approaching the biker I decide to approach a two blonde set both about 7 but get immediately blown out. THey literally just look at me and scoff lol tough break I suppose, probably had more to do with my unconfident body language and the fact I could not hold eye contact. The negative thoughts were creeping in and I felt so out of place. MY buddy finally gets there with his girl HB8 and her friend HB7.5. We sit around drinking just shooting the shit. I tell my Miami story that always gets a good laugh (I got so piss ass drunk I woke up on South Beach and had loan my car to a complete stranger that needed it for a court date). I see a sparkle in HB7.5 eyes and I decide to go for it. MY buddy and his girl go play pool and I go ahead and do a palm reading for her. Her eyes brighten and get wider. While doing this I am also touching her in other areas getting her use to my touch. After awhile my buddy says he needs to take his girl home and offers HB7.5 a ride home she says she wants me to give her a ride home (very good sign... I think lol). After another beer we get into my car and I ask her if she wants to come over and meet my cat. She agrees and before long we are in my bed, but I still could not pull it off. I got her out of her dress and bra but the panties she refused tom come off. What do I do in this situation?? After about one or two hours of just napping she wanted me to taker her home so I did.

Sticky points
Still had HB10 on the brain all night
I need to learn how to be consistent with my game
Bless Vin Dicarlo, I was afraid of kino before I started reading his stuff
Palm Reading really is a gold mine


Saturday Night
This should not even count but I got laid for the first time in 6 months. It was nothing I did personally. HB7 just happened to break up with her fiancé and I just happened to be there at the right time.

Overall Sticky Points
How do I get over oneitis
Have more confidence in night game
Where would be a good place to go day sarging

JM Riley

Hey man, don't beat yourself over the HB10 in your first story. You did what many guys new to this don't do, which is pulling the trigger. You could have done better with her by not making out with her for so long (a couples hours is a long ass time lol). You could spent less than a minute making out outside of the car, then pull her in the car and start escalating and doing some foreplay by rubbing her pussy outside of her jeans while making out. Then slowly start removing her jeans and rubbing outside of her panties, then work your way into fingering her, then penetration. I'm not sure if you were in broad daylight or in a public area that might have caused her to be uncomfortable or get caught, but decide to at least try or figure out logistics and pull her someplace else.

In the second situation, did you kiss her before pulling? This helps set a precedent and you will encounter less LMR if any. You also could have tried to stimulate her more before trying to remove her panties, similar to the foreplay escalation above. Get her hot and heavy by rubbing her pussy and she won't be able to think rationally. If you still get LMR, take a step back, build more comfort by talking deep stories about each other, then try again until you bang her. Good job closing the last girl. Going out and approaching more girls and closing will help you get over your oneitis.

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