| I'm looking for a relationship w/ this girl.
- Approached girl online.
- weeks of scheduling trouble.
- First date = fireworks, kiss close.
week later...
- Second date = her place, both tired, lots of talking, making out, meh.
week later...
- Third date = out in the sports car, more fireworks, making out, afternoon date, no time/opportunity to progress further.
After the 3rd date, the txting picked up a bit (we had only been txting once or twice a day, meeting once a week, slow progression) and we were txting about "cuddling" where that word was implying more. Good stuff. She called me when she got home and I made the mistake of asking how we were going to meld our busy schedules if we progressed further. She took that as "why are you criticizing how I spend my time?" so I backed off, we agreed to go for drinks Friday night (she qualified that she has an early Sat. morning appointment so can't stay out late.). This all went down on Monday the 4th....it left a bad taste in her mouth and I haven't contacted her, nor has she contacted me as of 5/6.
So.... what to do next? I want to convey to her that she twisted my words, I want this to happen organically or not at all, and I'm not pressing anything (even though I did bring it up). I believe I'm currently "freezing her out" but heck, she might not give a shit at this point. So do I text her something? Do we ignore each other for basically the entire work week than magically she's still going to want to hang Friday? Do I tell her Thursday night "I'm busy" and can't hang Friday to send a message?
Not sure how to play this one. Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thx.
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