Hi All,

(Some quick background on the HB: she is in the popular clique, while I am in a friend group that occasionally inter-mingle with the popular kids, but not frequently)

Im a sophomore in high school and am currently in a situation where your advice would be very much appreciated. Anyways, In my Chem class I last week was assigned to sit next to a Hb 7.5 who vaguely new of me. All of last week I gamed her well to the point where I got at least 3 IOIs a day; one including her creating a fake scenario where she had me drawing on her leg. Fast forward to Saturday, we were supposed to meet up at a festival but her "cool" friends trashed talked me to her and lowered my value immensely, she therefore flaked. Furthermore, in school it is obvious that any attraction I created has cooled off to nearly non-existant and things are pretty awkward. I think the best plan is to be nice and place myself in the friend zone (but still try to escalate kino) and only go for her again once I hookup with more girls in school, thus improving my social value.

What would you do?

No. Just no.

This girl is done, and so is your social value at school.

Meet women in an environment where you have more control over your social value. Think interest clubs or cold approach outside of school.

If you are pegged as a low-value guy in school then no one is going to want to hook up except for girls who are even lower than that. This is just how it is.

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First off - love the username, fella... It's ironic given your question, as well

So - you're a nerd. You're not part of the 'in-crowd'... Big deal. I was that way through much of high school. As soon as college came around things really picked up.

This girl was into you before she knew who you were... then someone filled her in. "That guy is a loser" or whatever... I'm sure that's not true - but that sure sounds like the reputation you may have.

The sad news is that I really don't know that there's a solution for this particular girl. Her opinion has been swayed, and she's now got a social reason NOT to date you (her other friends would know about it)...

Onward and upward - your best bet, if you ask me... Since you've got an apparently bad/nerd reputation at your school... Is to find a girl who doesn't go to your school. A hot one preferably.

Listen up Poon_Slayer,
Don't listen to these fools, they don't know anything. Sounds to me like you're a true PUA and you have the art mastered. You must keep trying and push through the friend zone because true PUAs never give up. I endured the same problem through high school with my social value, but I got through it with my special lady by using tons of kino to create sexual attraction, and guess what? We've been happily married for 5 years. You never know until you try! Never give up!

I wish you luck my fellow PUA
Now this HBs gonna go from cold to HOT in no time.

Thanks guys. And yah lol my name is pretty ironic, but after this summer it won't be. ( I will have many more opportunities than I have now.) Thanks for the advice and I'm going to work on my social value in schoo by hu with increasingly hotter girls, until I get to the point where my value is high. Also up work on my outta school game. Il let yall know how it goes and thanks again For the advice, especially to you EatsAssDaily69

Thanks Poon_Slayer! I think you really have a shot with this girl if she's given you all those IOI's. Otherwise you can go for a lower girl. Remember, Kino starts with the legs and moves to the ears

Make sure to keep us updated with what you're plan is!!!

I'll update with everything noteworthy. Thanks