What are some of your guys favorite opening lines to say to girls or a girl by herself in a bar? What are some of your best techniques or stragies to talk about with them?

sit down next to her and pretend you're on a blind date 'sorry i'm late, this is my 1st blind date, you look better than what I was expecting'

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I just say " Hey What ups " and smile..

Its funny that when you open so simply girls never ask " So you do say that to all the girls", but when you use a line they do. Foolish logic. The day I find a girl that asks me that when I open with "hey" I'm going drop everything and marry her.

My best friend would offer to get her a drink " Hey, you want a drink?" and he would take the girl to the bar and order two glasses of ice water. The reactions are priceless. This is his screening also, so even if he's been talking to a girl for 30 minutes he'll do this to assess their character.

I like to watch, so I'd always tell him to give me the cue when he was going. Some girls freak out, some laugh, and several have thrown the water in his face.

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That's amazing. I'm gonna try that one just for the reactions.

I haven't tried this as I'm not old enough to go into bars here in the states (20 garrhhh) but I saw this "best lines" type of post on twitter and if you are feeling kind of imprudent one of them was "My friend goes to the girl he wants; takes her drink, chugs it and then says "You look like you could use a drink" They ended with saying it works like 80% of the time haha so try at your own discretion.
I like this one. Short, punctual and you can use it in other places not just a bar. Thanks for sharing.

Ha, that's good stuff. I don't do much bar game but I'm going out this weekend just to order some water for a few sets, lol. That's too funny.

Bar game, day game, night game, beside a hedge game, exiting burger king game.

Where you are is irrelevant. Opening a woman does not have different meanings based on your locations or wether it is the sun or the moon in the sky.

Opening is always the same...simply opening her up to the notion of engaging with you.

What I always advise guys is not to try and use the same lines, as doing so actually trains you away from being spontaneous in the rest of the interaction and can make you pretty rigid.

When it comes to opening, I open usually in an observational way. Something I have naturally noticed from her, the situation, the surroundings. What ever.

Take note that IT DOES NOT NEED TO BE AWESOME, COOL, OR PERFECT!!! Thats what guys are looking for all the time and thats where all the stress comes from, trying to formulate the correct shit to say. Correct doesnt exist, only the amount of pressure you are placing on yourself exists.

I have used the amazing opener "Hey, how are you" SO many times. Super alpha huh?

Why have i used this so much? because I am lazy as fuck and realise from experience that what you say never really matters off the bat anyway. It is more to do with how you are saying it, and how you are coming to her.

I will say that i do feel that by being observational, the more creative you can learn to be. I enjoy to see the humorous side to everything and play with that.

I was in a bar on Saturday. Saw a beautiful girl with friends. She was so hot, and no guy was talking to her. This is what i observed.

I walked over and said "hey...why is nobody hitting on you?" and that was it. Enter fun playful and sexual conversational banter.

An other AMAZINGLY groundbreaking opener I used last week: "You...look...so...french" - why? because I saw her and i thought she was french.

And finally my most groundbreaking of all openers which got me laid, and i spent 13987 years designing in a lab with nasa is: I see a girl walkin down the street..."what a coincidence, I see you where shoes too"

Dude! Its DOESNT FUCKING MATTER WHAT YOU SAY, AS LONG AS YOU OWN YOUR SHIT!

Allow yourself to suck...great success will follow! Notice stuff and say it. Say what you see.

Chris

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Good post ^

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Dude yeah I got something for ya. This is a big question. But Bar Game my favorite!

Let me drop some wisdom!


Life is but one big blurb of variations of sounds. When you emit a signal from within your soul sends a sound which amounts to words being spoken coming out hitting the vibrations of the female or target.

In other words this method is effective but what you are seeing is not what you want to see because chit chat results in more chit chat not necessarily grabbing for something in the dark.

But when you start to approach it from a sound aspect you make less words and more action then you will start to see the vibrations become stronger. Your body langauge of kino and kino openers are some of the best ways to hook a set.

My last set was a body language opener. I was being waved over by a group of girls no time for openers so I just showed up and was hit on profusely while I just stood there and the vibrations of sound began but I saw things differently. I kissed her neck, grabbed her hand, checked out her great rack, then got the number on a 10. Never this easy! Body language is so vital!

Anyway some of my openers are on the fly but here is some examples.

The stars are aligned for us to meet because I saw you looking for a guy like me
(Moving set) Let me get a good look at you!
(Asian Chicks) Do you speak english
Want to dance
Do you have a wife (works great on 2 sets) hook line could be (well you can be mine)
Are you a Princess cuz you have stolen my heart
You might have what I am looking for
Are you looking for trouble (worked on a 10)
These are the openers floating around in my head I am going to use and spice up this year.

But more importantly than wordy openers I am starting to use my body as an opener or prop piece. I am seeing the vibrations of words as inevitable so to challenge myself I remember Creation was given by sound so therefore returning to the root causes can be powerful.

This is why I will be trying this year
Body Language Openers (No Words make girl open me/aka gauge interest right away)
Kino Openers
Challenge Openers (do you think you can get a guy like me or is this gonna be a long role play)


Why is sound so important? Well I have been yelled at to "Get it" when a hot girl opened me by bending over and me dry humping her in public and her friends yelling for me to get it boy then yelling blown out blown out and without almost any exchange of words then I realized it was not the right time for words it was time for action since the vibrations were so strong.

Then the sounds of girls hitting on me getting ignored for so long then I started to listen so these girls were waving at me to come over and saying things so I was listening to these sounds and heard "Holy Sh!t" this meant "You're Hot" I knew what it meant even without an explanation and without any introduction and me standing there that sound was so powerful that the vibration began to escalate very quickly but when the focus is more on words and less body lanaguage or sub-communication it is more logical and therefore less intimate.

What I mean is things escalate very quickly with less sound and more stronger vibrations. They were yelling at us to make out, make out and I was not listening to these sounds so I only got the cheek. Then she said she needed redeemption. So my choice is not so much the words I speak but now the actions I take. I need to listen to these sounds they are getting very deep. A new level of game!!!

Here is some really ADVANCED shit... ready?

Say "hi". A girl alone at a bar is there specifically to be approached. Just sit on seat away and glance at her every so often until she glances back then say hi INSTANTLY.

A lone girl at the bar is what I call "the last man on earth challenge". You are already in isolation and you have to be a real knob for her not to like you.

Girls rarely go to bars alone

If they are, then her Friend is usually about to join her in 10mins so you have to work fast

Hookers go to bars alone though but not sure that's a good thing

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I used to take a napkin, draw a criss-cross game on it, and drew the first symbol. Then I asked
the waiter to carry it to the girl I wanted to talk to, but to not tell her from who it was.

Then we played the game back and forth, and after I won (I always do), I walked over there and
introduced myself to her.

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There are exceptions to every rule though...

And I know one or two women who go to bars alone who are definitely NOT hookers.

Yeah I definitely agree with chris, but if I was short on time I like to use the line, "hi my name's Sebastian and I'm going to be hitting on you." The hb will respond with "is that your pick up line?" Or "is that your best?" Which I follow up with a "No....(long pause)... I save the good stuff for girls that deserve it". Very direct when pressured for time and need to skip small talk. Bonus points for the qualification.

I took ChocolatePUA's post as simple misogynistic/slut shaming bullshit. I've met tons and tons of girls who go out alone, and you know who it is? Girls that treat guys like Chocolate as so many mosquitoes. He would talk himself out of approaching a confident gorgeous girl by imagining her being a prostitute, and if he didn't I could see her reaction to his act, walk in and spook him away, even if I were friendly to him.

Here's why:

Even IF this girl were a prostitute, she's still a regular girl. You can talk to her about everything that counts. To know girls you need to know other guys, because that is every girl's experience of men. Who knows that better than a prostitute? I approach because I like the look of someone. That's it. Big people. Small people. Young. Old. Fat, thin, ugly, young, hot, or weird. I have a fondness for other weird people. I can't speak to Chocolate's vibe or motivations but I don't think they are something I share with him or think optimal.