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But these PUA places are always telling you that you need to be high fashion to have game--that you need to buy Prada and crap like that.
Lol, Prada. I mean look, if you're actually trying to get into V.I.P. at the top few bars in NYC where legit models/celebs hang out, yeah, actually, you'd be well invested in doing stuff like this.
But honestly, if you're looking to go out and get laid, nothing is better than top 40 dance clubs, and on a bar front, college aged dive bars. Wearing Prada there is the kind of thing that will get you hit.
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Most of the so-called PUA gurus have budgets of tens of thousands of dollars per year to spend on travel, clothes, and other things that make them attractive to women. It hardly seems surprising that they get laid. I've read a lot of the books and want to call BS on all of them. Most notable PUA artists are nothing more than reality show actors, whether or not they have been on TV... They get paid to live famously, write about it, brag about it, dress for it, and then act like they have some special talent when they actually get laid after they insert stories most of us could never tell into their conversations (I'm self employed, rich, well-traveled, etc, etc).
I agree with you and I get the sense your exposure to PUA consists of Mystery, Style, RSD and other similarly shitty stuff. The vast majority of PUAs are posers and scam artists. They are effective marketers and are not good with women.
Rather than go further into this, I will just point you to four legit PUAs(though I don't think even one of them uses that moniker) who teach you things that actually matter. All of them have free blogs with loads of content.
My top pick is
Chase Amante (Covers just about everything you could want to learn on the mental side)
My second is
60 Years of Challenge (Covers what you need on moving forward with an existing sexual spark)
My Third is
Good Looking Loser (Covers simplicity and doing what works)
My Forth is
Christian McQueen (Covers mastery of the critical elements).
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Therapists don't actually care if you get well. They actually like it when you keep coming to their office b/c it keeps them in business.
Don't get me started on therapists. The ones who just sit and listen are the best ones. I know several people who were deeply fucked up(deliberately) by therapists. If they see signs of you improving, they will literally go out of their way to break you.
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Q: What are some hobbies where both the following are true?
1) Guys can enjoy it, and do it well and even "geek out"
2) They provide a way to meet girls
Biking is a good one. So is Toastmasters, if you live in a big area.
Charity organizations that involve the environment, animals, art, or religion are also very solid.
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Build an emotional connection through your hard throbbing cock.
Build trust and comfort by holding their hands and covertly rubbing your elbows on their nipples.
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