so to sum up everything my friends ex girlfriend we invited her to our clubbing the purpose was so i could meet her and maybe i may have interest in her
we went home 2 am and she called me when i got home and she was crying
she told me her boyfriend got mad because of jelousy i listened the 12 fucking minuites and giving advices
in my mind i was thinking im being the nice guy again but in my heart its telling me to help her and comfort her
she called me because her bestfriend already settled in and dont want to bother her so im the other option
like wtf? friendzone again? tell me your opinion about it guys


2. last night at my first official clubbing i realized daygame is faaar different from night i do not know how to act im used at talking a lot and teasing people and im a stiff dancer i cannot feel the music and vibe and note this foreigners were a magnet to the girls for they look handsome
can please tell me or give me advices how to feel the vibe in the environment and how to act in a club
does looks and basic confidence get you laid more than average look and true confidence

Once again, you don't value you your time. You sympathize with everyone even if their intention to use you for you energy and then throw you to the curb. Do you give you money away to any and everyone that ask? IF she had called you and said I need $3,000 because I'm upset and need to go shopping to feel better can you help me? Would you give it to her?

If no, then why do you value money but you don't value your time? My time is more valuable than money. I'd give someone a couple dollars before I gave them my time if their wasn't some form of exchange happening. You have to begin to attribute value to your time. The sound of your voice, the way you walk, and the way you talk. Value every aspect of yourself.

I personally feel like people should have to pay me to watch me walk down the street. I'm still working that out lol, but I feel that way. Seriously. These people get to see me walk and watch me blink my eyes for free. And so i expect to be treated with a certain level of grace.

You're viewing yourself as worthless and everyone is going to view you the way you view yourself. If this is how you want you life to be then continue, if you want change make change.

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