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PostPosted: Mon Apr 27, 2015 4:04 am 
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Hey guys,
Friday night I met a new girl, friend of friends.
I approached her, talking and joking for a couple of hours, she answered with IDI and I also send her IDI in the end, arriving in the comfort zone.
I did a huge mistake :? , thinking that she would come out again with us on Saturday, because a new friends night our was planned, and I did not ask her phone number.
On Saturday she did not come, and now I have fear to lose the comfort that I have created waiting for the next time that she will come again with my friends.

Do you suggest to ask her number to a friend of her or to wait until the next time in which she will come out again with us (could be tomorrow or in a month or more)?
(I do not know her surname and I do not have FB) :?:


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 27, 2015 8:12 am 
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Dont worry too much. I wouldnt ask for her number off a friend, thats a bit too forward. Just wait til you see her again. If you were to get her number and chat to her over text or whatever, when you next see her, you've kind of set the frame that youre interested so everything you do may be scrutinized and will be hard to keep the interaction feeling natural. You want it to feel like attraction is growing mutually between you. You established comfort on the first meeting, and it shouldnt be too difficult to slide back into it. You met quite casually so there's probably not too much expectation from her end. Really you should just be able to pick up from where you left off, or at least make that your frame when you see her again. Just make sure you get a number next time.

also if youre comfortable talking about this to your friend, they might help you out and invite this girl next time you all go out.


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 27, 2015 9:35 am 
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Dont worry too much. I wouldnt ask for her number off a friend, thats a bit too forward. Just wait til you see her again. If you were to get her number and chat to her over text or whatever, when you next see her, you've kind of set the frame that youre interested so everything you do may be scrutinized and will be hard to keep the interaction feeling natural. You want it to feel like attraction is growing mutually between you. You established comfort on the first meeting, and it shouldnt be too difficult to slide back into it. You met quite casually so there's probably not too much expectation from her end. Really you should just be able to pick up from where you left off, or at least make that your frame when you see her again. Just make sure you get a number next time.

also if youre comfortable talking about this to your friend, they might help you out and invite this girl next time you all go out.
i totally agree with rockstar...
just wait till next meeting and get her number, a little of phone game and that'it!
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 27, 2015 11:16 am 
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Ask a friend. They'll ask her and give you the number if she's interested.

I've done this several times.

Why wait?

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