Hello

So I have a situation with a girl.

The girl is a HB10. And also a very close friend.

Basically she has given me allot of IOI's and I'm assuming attraction overall. So I am not gonna talk much about that.

However, I was planing to kiss close her at a party and i was drunk and she was drunk. I take her outside, push against her against the wall. Hold her hands. She doesn't reject kino. I tell her that my ex was more nice than her ( I know she gets extremely jaloux when i mentoin her, so i only did it to power things up)

She reacts extreme. Kino is aborted and that I was holding her too hard. (idk if thats the case, hence i was drunk af). So after her extreme reaction. I walk away from her. And I dont see her to talk to her for the next 1-2 hours of that party.

Next time I see her, we cuddle. But she runs away to her friend and I was again unable to K-close.

I leave the party and go to another club. I see one of her friends which also appears to be one of mine friends and she called the HB10 on the phone and told her that I had said she went home.

She reacts by saying " Yeah HE WAS SO WIERD tonight. I haven't even talked to him"
I heard it, because she was on loud speakers.

So me and her friend meet the hB10 again. I immiedatly grab her hand and walk with her and we talked and she told me that she had cheek kissed one of my friends and then he had attempted to kiss her and She rejected him. Upon rejecting him he became angry.

HB10 states frustiation over why boys give up so fast on a girl and find another.

She puts her head on my chest and we find peace. But I was unable to kiss close at this point, because she once again runs over to her friends.

WE hit the club. WE dance together. And I eventually tell her to get a drink with me and once again, she runs over to her friends. This time, I get angry. As a Man i cannot tolerate this behaivour. I walk out of the room and she runs over to me like it was a racing competition and asked me if I was angry. I state No. And walk out of the party. Before I leave i see her looking down the floor and holding her eyes with her hands like she was crying and one of her friends was talking to her. Her friend also runs over to me and ask if I am angry and I state No and leave for another party with my male friends.


Thing is, i really want to kiss close this girl. She is a hb10 and she is obv. interested. But it keeps getting complicated for me each time. I have asked her out, but she tells me she wants to do it sometime in May. But i dont wanna wait so long for her.

I texted her today and it went like this
Me: "Jessica?"
Her: "Yes, John?"


What to do? I am considering to ignore her for a very very long time and find some other women in the meanwhile and then come back to her.

You all sound incredibly mature. He-said-she-said-she-ran-to-her-friends bullshit.

Know why she's playing mind games with you? Cause it's worked for her in the past and she thinks she can.

You're eating it right up, too. Playing right into it. Look at you - confused as hell, posting on a forum about it.

Don't like it? Then don't participate. Don't accept it. Don't react to her bullshit.

May take a week or two of no contact, but you can do that... You'll be a whole lot better off. It also wouldn't hurt you if she saw you flirting with other girls btw.

Is the maturity part ironic or do you actually mean it?

Also do i re initiate contact or does she?

And yes honestly, it does confuse me.

I'm glad you read my reply.

So it's almost been 2 weeks and I have broken rapport. Do i reinitate it now or do I let her do that -.-

Sorry I missed you in the chat. You asked me about this but it got very busy in there...

So you've taken 2 weeks off from her. Has there been any word from her? Texts? Calls? Have you seen each other?

I have reinstated rapport with her since last and she seemed very happy that we are now having contact again and she hugged me and said that i meant allot and that she was sorry stuff went like that and that the reason for her running away was because i seemed "violent" hence i grabbed her too "hard".

Either way this is the same girl from seduction-of-my-best-friend-vt187830.html

The thing is I think i am totally fucked with this girl at the moment since there was a girl who flirted with her and he made an agreement with her to dance. She forget this agreement and when he attempted to dance with her, she went along with her friend. and he gave her the middle finger. She asked me if i could talk with him indirectly and tell him that she didn't mean anything and that she "wanted to lay in some cards" meaning she feels attracted to him.

Am I friendzoned? Did I fuck this up by not just k closing? or is she just trying to make me jealous since she also mentioned her Ex whom i know for a fact she hates. She talked about how much she used to like him and about her crush on him. also, she was showing me her cousin and on her phone when she clicked on facebook search my name was at the top.. That means that i was last person she searched for on facebook and we haven't texted for weeks due to the broken rapport so that means she is stalking me.