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PostPosted: Wed Apr 22, 2015 6:23 pm 
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Noob question, I know. How do I build up sexual tension? Can you give exemples?

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 22, 2015 10:31 pm 
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hey man.. sure

sexual tension is the most important thing in seduction. Without it you can even forget to take her home.
By the way sexual tension is created as soon as you get closer to her or make a sexual statement, actually you do not even need to say something really cool...my best way to create it is getting closer...more and more, then slow your voice down and look into her eyes...look to her lips while you talk, add kino.

you will notice an evident reaction from her...then kiss! simple as that.

but believe me you must be close to ignite it! if u have any other question just ask

hope to been helpful

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 23, 2015 12:34 am 
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mantarochen is right. You can build sexual tension through your touch, eye contact, closing the distance and even using the power of your voice. Holding strong eye contact while slowing down your speech and inserting pauses will create lots of sexual tension. This is one of the ways you can create the mood for the kiss.

You can also escalate throughout and have "under-the-radar" touch where you are casually touching her by standing next to her and have the back of your hand rest against her or legs touching each other while you speak about non-sexual topics. If you really want sexual tension to build up, you can kiss her early on and don't kiss her again until you bring her to a sex location. This will really get her going and wonder why you've haven't kissed her again to validate her. You will also encounter less LMR this way.

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Noob question, I know. How do I build up sexual tension? Can you give exemples?

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Sexual tension is always present when a guy and girl are in the same room. The problem is, too many men are quick to diffuse the sexual tension because they aren't strong enough in their frame to handle it. For example.. When you make eye contact with a girl how long do you hold the eye contact? Do you look away first or hold it until she looks away first? The one that looks away first is displaying that they are in submission to the strength of the one who held the tension longest. This also can apply to awkward silences. If you can tolerate silence without it causing you to feel "Awkward" - if you can be comfortable in that silence you're the one in charge of the sexual tension.

So you don't have to build it, it will build on its own so long as it isn't broken by the one who should be leading the interaction.

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 23, 2015 9:33 pm 
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Build up sexual tension?

Simple.

Flirt.

(example of light flirting)"You dont look german, but is okay i like them short and tanned like you" - Eye contact - Smile -

Whenever you're talking to a woman you are interested in you must add little flirt spikes here and there, that will keep you in control of the sexual tension and lead to sex.

If you fail to flirt, you will most likely not succeed in attracting her sexually.

But is really that simple, just learn how to incorporate flirting into your game :)

It is essential.

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 24, 2015 2:27 am 
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Banter and Flirting is good for getting the fired started.

As far as sealing the deal, deliberate touch and eye contact.

You get a feeling like you are in the zone, and the girl feels it too. Everything around you is moving slow motion and you two are the only ones that matter. It makes some guys uncomfortable so they do not capitalize.

Its a type of energy you exude and feel.

One analogy can be like when you watch two people about to fight, or you are about to fight yourself. There's a type of energy that both people feel, and everything else is blocked out. Your focused in on the moment, except instead or anger it is lust, love, or a combination of the two.

If you are new or uncomfortable to sexual tension and escalation then start small.
-Hugs, Holding hands, parting your arm around her back, and holding eye contact longer.

Once you get more comfortable you can be more sexually deliberate.


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Thanks everyone. Lots of good advice here.


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Make pauses when you talk while making eye contact.


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So, from what I've been reading here and on a few websites it is basically:

Mantaining eye contact.

Standing close to the girl. I need some more help with this, can anyone provide a link for body lenguage articles? Like how to stand, turning towards her or at an angle, etc.

Lowering and deepening my voice tone and slowing down my speech. Again, if anyone has links for voice exercices, be my guest.

Anything else?


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So, from what I've been reading here and on a few websites it is basically:

Mantaining eye contact.

Standing close to the girl. I need some more help with this, can anyone provide a link for body lenguage articles? Like how to stand, turning towards her or at an angle, etc.

Lowering and deepening my voice tone and slowing down my speech. Again, if anyone has links for voice exercices, be my guest.

Anything else?

Newfish there are a lot of good books on internet, but my favorite one which explain very good the topic is 'Double Your Dating' of David DeAngelo. just google it and read it...it will teach u a lot... ;)

if you have more question just imbox me...

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