i will refrain from reposting my previous comments in another thread he tried to hijack. however, my thoughts and statement still stands.
that busy highway....yes, it is calling you.
and to make it PUA and proper for this thread, I'll give ADVICE to Zip
actually, it is theories to be tested:
when a wingman is approaching a set that his female wing is already in he can do (from my stance as a man) two different things that are non-threatening AND reinforcing.
1.) Approach the MAN (non-wing) from the side, hand him a drink, give a SHORT, QUICK approval and positive opinion about the woman (wing ((possibly even a quick story reinforcing good traits of her)), then to make it sincere and non-threatening give him either a "REAL" (you believe in it) handshake and tell him he got a really good one...or a one hand on his should "awesome job bro."
Obviously the above SHOULD be done with a drink...this way you are giving him positive reinforcement for entertaining this girl (who, if she did her job right, shouldn't have to be entertained, cause she is already MONEY...but he doesn't need to know this). Because you have to invest a couple dollars into it, I would wait until she (the wing) makes a signal or is ready to invest legit time into this target.
or you could
2.) walk up behind the girl, put your arm around her....using the arm that is around her do the *above head pointing* and use some facial expressions to signify that she is a good catch. Ya know, raised eyebrows... w/e , use your head. But do it fast, don't be BETA, but don't be aggressive either. Make sure you don't come off as being with her, or possessive. Oh, and DO NOT MAKE IT SEEM LIKE YOU ARE SAYING SHE IS EASY!
or finally,
3.) slowly walk by, make sure you grab solid eye contact with the guy, and give him a thumbs up, a wink, or ya know, just really positive body language for his "good work"
One of them happened to me. It made me stay in set, and it actually gave me an instant boost to phase shift, and do even better than I was.
how accurate and descriptive do these sound then....they match up with your opinion; you agree?