Hey guys,

I've gotta question for the more fearless PUAs on board. How often do you walk around before approaching? I've done shit loads of cold approaches, but I always feel I've got to walk around to ease the nerves. It sounds weird, I know but I figure this way less people notice what I'm doing - especially if I'm approaching in different locations - and fewer girls notice me getting blown out. When all the girls in one location see you get blown out, they're more likely to blow you out too. Plus I'm spending a lot of time walking around looking for girls that are easy to approach logistically speaking - e.g. they aren't with a boyfriend.

Is this a good idea, or should I just man up and approach more often without pussy footing around, trying to keep a low profile? Does walking around a lot make me look beta/weak? Does it give off a creepy aura? I'm mainly just trying to be calculated in my approaches.

Thanks.

Don't walk around before you approach, literally all you are doing is getting into your head and over thinking everything plus wasting time.

The BEST thing you can do which will literally triple your results is no matter what the first person you see go up to them and talk to them. Say whatever the fuck you want, it will be fun.

After you terribly fuck up your first interaction which is perfect, you will now be loosened up and feel ten times better than walking around for an hour, and now you can go to the next person knowing that you've already fucked up this can't be any worse. and will get a lot better.

Even if the other girls see you get flaked on?

I'm pretty new to this but I also walk around town center's etc.

I subtly check out all women around me and when I notice a suitable target I move in. Often they are moving so it can be difficult to get them to stop.

On average, I'll probably approach one every 10-15 minutes and I don't care if it's in the same location as a previous approach because everyone else is moving around anyway.

Man you guys have it easssssyyyyyyy

I have to daygame at the UNI where i live lol and that shit is turning out to be the most difficult task i've encountered - being a nightgame guy and transitioning into fulltime daygame because i moved to another town so i can finish college...

Anyways i been hitting it up and this is what i find works best - First off you dont want to be seeing as the guy who approaches alot, you want to play it cool, and honestly at the mall is incredibly anonymous , no one is going to see you really.

If your going to effectively daygame you want to go to a venue which has high volume and high anonimity

Translation - lots of girls / lots of people so no one can tell what you are doing.

Anyways, i daygame daily at the uni and so far i been doing good and progressing, i have to be incredibly subtle though at least in the way i am percieved, because word spreads quick, but i have no problem with that being a seasoned pua, still i only been daygaming the UNI for 2 weeks, so still too early to tell, ill have a report by the end of the year


But for malls, just approach lol thats cake walk, who cares if you walk around stand, do whatever you want as long as you do your approaches.

I typically daygame for 1hr daily and do around 3-5 approaches.
Thats 25 girls a week
100 girls a month.

Thats how you make progress in daygame.

I find is all about "the right mindset" when it comes to daygame success.

So far i am enjoying my daygame experiences very much

Both daygame and nightgame are fun but i am forced to do daygame now because the nightlife in this newtown im on is crap. But i gota say, daygame can be incredibly fun and a challenging task. But with amazing results in the longrun.

Edit: Oh yea and to answer your question, walking around is fine dude... but if you're letting potential girls walk by you, then why go out there and waste your time?
We all have times where we choad around a bit, but push yourself, it'll get better everytime.

Even i who have been doing this for a long time, can choad around a bit, but i always PUSH myself and succeed.
If you fuck up one day and dont approach okay, it doesnt matter, is just ONE day, look at your progress in terms of weeks/months/years of consistancy, if your pushing yourself for the most part you are improving

No one is a fucking robot who can just approach alot on sight and shit without a bit on anxiety, thats a fantasy

But you can be a man and grow some balls and approach often, and meet your goals.

Stride for success, no one is expecting you to go ham specially when starting out, dont be so hard on yourself, eventually you will be approaching like a pro.

Game is just like any other sport, it takes practice, discipline and determination.

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yes man even if girls see you get flaked on. DON'T LET IT PHASE YOU smile and move on. When i go out to bars, i approach tons of girls and get denied 80% of the time and yet i'm having a great time with a smile on my face and those 20% are usually successes and hot. Just be unphased man who cares if they don't want to talk to you go to the next girl with a smile on your face