So long story short Im in college and Ive been boning this girl for like a few weeks and she asks me if I have been talking to other girls and shit so I'm like ya I have. We never talked about being exclusive or anything so I assumed she is boning others too. Shes all pissed and doesn't want to fuck with me unless Ill be her boyfriend which is just a horrible idea because its almost summer and were goin to different cities to begin with and it's not like I'm a one woman type of guy these days. Is there a way to convince a girl that dating is a stupid idea and just to chill like me. If so, havent thought of it. who has?

The best time to do that is before they get attached. I don't know the reason why it works better this way, but I'm guessing it has something to do with them trying to make themselves appealing to you with the hopes that you'll change your mind down the road.

In your situation, the best thing you can do is continue on like she's never talked about it. Most of the time they'll settle back into the routine that you guys already had. If she does bring it up, just tell her that you like how things are with her right now and not being under pressure of being in a relationship and to exclamate your point you should have sex with her as soon as you can after this conversation. If she doesn't like that, let her move on to a guy that wants what she wants.

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