Ill try to be a bit short here, because i know that most likely there have been A LOT of similar threads already.
So there's that one girl i like, we walk in same universtiy, we're on same faculty and we share 2 class out of 12.
it feels like a new page, and i dont really wanna make any mistakes SPAM, nor i want to stall it till the chance is gone. so I wanna ask where do i start,what do i do.
Prolly there've been a lot of similar threads and im not really asking to explain it all, but could u like at least tell me what to search so ill get a basic information about the fresh start, also ask me some questions so u will understand the case better :p thanks for help in advanced

I guess maybe I'm not understanding what you mean by a 'fresh start'... How does that differ from just simply gaming like any other girl?

We'd need more details to help you here. Does she know you exist? Have you talked to her before? Are you friendly with her and do you have her phone number? Are you two ever out socially together? ETC...

Also - what are your ages?

Uhh I mean when u're gaming with a girl u have to start somewhere, and imo, im at the start. like I havent done anything yet.

Uhh yeah she knows i exist, she added me on facebook like 3~ months ago. and since that we had small conversations on facebook and in uni when we're together. like not too often, possibly once in 2 week or once in a week or something.
so yeah I've talked to her as well as i said
Well yeah we're more or less friendly like, if person waves u when u walk in a classroom and u chat a bit its kinda friendly guess
and nah i dont have her phone number
and nope again we havent been out together except uni if that counts
And we're both 19.

You have to be willing to fail to be successful at anything in life. If you're behave timidly and try you best not to make any mistakes you will find yourself unsuccessful far faster than you would by taking a few risk.

I would also encourage you to provide a bit more information. Has there be any contact between you to so far? Or is this just some girl you've never spoken to or made any real eye contact with that you're hoping for a shot with?

Also, what has your previous success been like with women?

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yeah fail makes u stronger,wiser etc but you dont have to burn urself to know how bad fire can be :p
And i want to make as less mistakes as possible, or just learn stuff without "breaking my legs". in other words I dont want to fail if its avoidable, i wouldnt mind risking tho, but as long as it makes sence ofc :p

nah as i said its a fresh start so except being uni "friends" nothing else. and yeah its kinda rather a girl with wwho i havent made any eye contact

Uhh and not a lot of success with women. Im kinda still a virgin, i got couple bjs and had few exes but that's all.

This isn't fire, and she has no power to burn you. The risk of getting burned by fire is in no way comparable to the risk of getting rejected by a woman you don't even know. They don't even come close. So while it was a clever comeback, it is completely irrelevant to the topic at hand. And even amongst to people who "play" with "fire" for a living it is those who are most timid and nervous who are the fastest to get burned. Cautious is one thing, but there isn't too much room for thinking and planning when the fire is right before you.

And the fact that you consider yourself to still be a virgin further validates how your natural cautious behavior has affected your success.

What makes you think you like this girl? Thats the real question. Anyone thats ever gotten their dream girl can tell you that she didn't turn out to be nearly good as they had anticipated. So you may want to keep that in mind.

Theres no sure full proof way to secure success other than to take whatever action you do take unapologetically quirk full confidence.

I've approached women in many of creative ways in both uni and grade school. With things like drawing a tic tac toe board on a piece of paper and slipping the girl the note while walking by her desk. Once she plays and passes it back I'll suggest that if i win i get her number and if she wins (she tell me what she wants).. Win or lose i'd always go for the number anyway. And it usually worked out.

But i was always making eye contact and smiling at these women before i made any moves. They had an idea i was interested and so i validated it with the note. But truth be told, I just didn't care. I had 4 classes in the one semester I spent in college and had gotten the numbers of 2-3 girls from each class not including women outside of my class. I literary would start conversation with every other attractive girl that would cross my path.

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I got your point, but honestly i'd rather get burned than get rejected by her. i know it might sound odd and old stylish but idk, i just dont want to get rejected by her.
I've liked other girls and i've gone full YOLO mode risking a lot and stuff because i didnt care if i'd fail. get rejected or w/e. sometimes it went good sometimes it went bad and honestly i dont regret my either act because i learned from my failure and i enjoyed success but in this case i feel kinda differnt, its like, i dont want to lose her,get rejected or something of this kind due to my mistakes :p i still understand that even if ill act right i might not get what i want but i just wanna make sure i've at least done things right.

and what makes me think i like her, i honestly never thought about it, she's kinda cute, i like her personality, she's pretty beautiful, we share common interests i like the way she thinks, i also like the way she talks etc :p.

hope i made some sense :p

Here's how i feel about a guy trying to get ONE girl.

Is futile.
Is an overinvestment.
It pisses me off how ignorant guys can be.

Focusing sooooo much energy on one girl is retarded.

Even if there was a way, it wouldn't be worth the investment.

Here's what you should focus your brain power and efforts on : BEING FUCKING AWSOME

"But dtrak..... i LIKEEEE HER... SHEEES SO HOTTT DUDE LIKE I WANA GET THIS GIRL, WHY ELSE WOULD I JOIN THE PICK UP ARTIST FORUMS MANNNN I WANT THE ATTRACTION FORMULAAA"

Dtrak: FUCK OFFFFFFFF

there is no attraction formula, but to be fair there is such thing as being good with girls and getting hot girls.
but is not through overinvestment.

Life must go on, you must become awsome, and you must meet new girls. That is the formula.

Focusing on one girl will inevitably lead to suffering, waste of time, overinvestment.

Think of it from the girls perspective - You think she's on a forum asking about how to get you?

NO, SHES FUCKING LIVING HER LIFE GETTING HER ASS KISSED.

YOU WANT GIRLS LIKE THIS?

LIVE YOUR LIFE AND GET YOUR ASS KISSED.

*peace*

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